Advice from an experienced daddy❤

[Mediumsizedbean]

[Jemas]

honestily just be silly have fun .. there is no ... 'way' to be little .. its just enjoying yourself having fun : hopefully this helps .. if you want more details .. just message me

[Guest DuckDaddy66]

Go get a stuffie, plushie, and watch your favorite cartoons.  When you get done, tell us what you watched. 

[SharkPrince]

Maybe try doing things that you did or watched or ate when you was younger, the association should help you fade away into little space

[sullenDaddybones]

I use to know someone who would use IMVU for this.

[Daddy Mav]

Hey MediumSizedBean, find yourself someone who gets you , someone you trust be it irl or online - I found that my little being able to release all of her tensions from the grown up world helped, the fact when apart communicated on and off all day with cute msgs too helped so when she arrived home she was already in a good place which allows you to get into that little space ( stuffies, snuggles colouring in, even chatting online to other littles, cartoons are a few things you can also try) I don’t know if this will help but you can always try ( sometimes it’s also being with the right person ) I hope you find what you’re looking for. If you ever need to chat I’ll send a friend request

[Little Illy]

If you don't mind advice from an experienced Domme (Mommy) and Little...

 

You are new and I want to say this right here and right now. You mentioned wanting advice from a Daddy. I suggest you take that kinda thinking right outa your mind. Sure getting advice from CGs can absolutely help, but dont close yourself off. You say you are having trouble getting into Littlespace (essentially). You should be turning to the vast amount of littles on this forum for that advice - there are so many of us that have had so many issues getting into little space. Daddy and I are celebrating our 2yr anniversary next month and I still have trouble. Dont let yourself get in the habit of just turning towards Daddies for these things. I know it may sound harmless, but if you start turning towards Daddies for every thing, even when there are more experienced members out there who can help you, you're stunting your own growth and experience.

 

Don't let yourself become one of those littles who cannot function without a Daddy because they end up refusing to grow. There are literally a handful of littles who have posted this exact issue in Little Space and DDlg Discussions. Daddies don't always know and can't always help. Open yourself up to the rest of the community

 

As for the littlespace problem; whenever I tried to get into littlespace, my mind was telling me acting out on the cuteness and the littleness of me was stupid. My mind kept saying"its time to be an adult, time to grow up," etc. A lot of people deal with a mental component that stops them from getting into littlespace. And most of the time they have to work to get over it.

 

If you are a person who does not slip in and out of littlespace easily, I think the hardest thing about finding out you are a little and battling that little voice in your head saying "that is too childish!" Remember, that you can easily be a Little and handle all of your adult responsibilities. Think of the doctors who play in rock bands, or the teachers who go out and party in Amsterdam over the summer (two groups of people I actually know...), or how about the college student who has to stay up all night to study, yet on the weekends unwinds at a house party? It is the same thing. One identity does not cross out the other.

 

Some littles have trouble because they feel inferior or even less smart as a little in littlespace. Being little does not diminish you being an adult, it is actually the opposite. It takes a mature person to handle this dynamic because of all it can entail and all that surround it. So to be a little, you first must be an adult. That is what helped me realize it wasn't childish. It is calculated. And for some people, it is therapeutic. 

 

It took me 4 years to get into Littlespace for the first time. And by then I needed my Daddy, wine, accessories and constant assurance I wasn't acting like an idiot. Because that is how I felt. Like a person was singing on stage for the first time. No matter how good the voice may be, its the first time and it is daunting. That was me and littlespace. It was something I had to develop over time. And not even that! I couldn't call Daddy 'Daddy' for the first 2 months or so of our dynamic based relationship. I had to call him Sir because Daddy didn't feel right because of my insecurities. 

 

Ultimately what helped me get a grip and accept my identity was finding those who were also little. I came to this forum. And interacting with these amazing people (and even the people who have challenged me), I found more comfort in being my little self day by day. And this is because this forum normalized this mindset for me. Anywhere else and the way we think, talk, or act may come off as something negative. But here, we are among friends, family and a network of support, so it helps take the stigmas away and allows a person to calmingly explore themselves. 

 

Which is what I advise you to do - try making this dynamic 'normal' for you. Even if it is just for an hour a day, find a way to see that your little side and littlespace isn't something you should try to force, but instead... let it happen naturally! The biggest thing to remember is that everyone is attracted to different things and other things turn them off entirely. So when you are searching for those little, helpful triggers to help ease you into littlespace, don't go hunting for them, but rather just look around. Get a feel for what everything is and how you react to them. When you find something you are drawn to, go down that path and see what follows. It took all of that to get me into littlespace, but that isn't common. I know people who are triggered into littlespace just by researching their identity. They find out so many people are just like them and they get excited in not being alone. 

 

I am so excited for you and I am glad to hear youre happy about your new development of figuring out your little side! Remember that you have a ton of sources on this forum, so don't stick just with Daddies because you are a little. Make friends! Gain a support network and share experiences!     At the end of the day littlespace is difficult for some and easy for other. But it will only be easy if you let it happen naturally and organically. So just make some friends, read some threads and do a bit of research and self-reflection and you'll be more than okay. 

Edited September 8, 2018 by Little Illy

[Niylah]

*peeks inside Grown up forum*

juss let us littles do whatever we want!!!

*hides*

Oh!! And we need more cookies too!!

*runs away giggling*

[Guest Fancysir]

This is different for everyone. However some things I noticed that tend to work in general are words. Talking. I will say things like let Daddy help you with that...or I am proud of you, you're my good girl.

 

I've noticed objects work well too. Perhaps receiving a new toy or pretty dress....or playing with an old favorite stuffed animal. Sexual play works for some too.

 

Every little is different. I am giving you ideas of what I would do to help you. However I liked what Lily said. Perhaps consider talking to other Littles to help you find ways to get there on your own. Good luck sweetie.

[Mediumsizedbean]

If you don't mind advice from an experienced Domme (Mommy) and Little...

 

You are new and I want to say this right here and right now. You mentioned wanting advice from a Daddy. I suggest you take that kinda thinking right outa your mind. Sure getting advice from CGs can absolutely help, but dont close yourself off. You say you are having trouble getting into Littlespace (essentially). You should be turning to the vast amount of littles on this forum for that advice - there are so many of us that have had so many issues getting into little space. Daddy and I are celebrating our 2yr anniversary next month and I still have trouble. Dont let yourself get in the habit of just turning towards Daddies for these things. I know it may sound harmless, but if you start turning towards Daddies for every thing, even when there are more experienced members out there who can help you, you're stunting your own growth and experience.

 

Don't let yourself become one of those littles who cannot function without a Daddy because they end up refusing to grow. There are literally a handful of littles who have posted this exact issue in Little Space and DDlg Discussions. Daddies don't always know and can't always help. Open yourself up to the rest of the community

 

As for the littlespace problem; whenever I tried to get into littlespace, my mind was telling me acting out on the cuteness and the littleness of me was stupid. My mind kept saying"its time to be an adult, time to grow up," etc. A lot of people deal with a mental component that stops them from getting into littlespace. And most of the time they have to work to get over it.

 

If you are a person who does not slip in and out of littlespace easily, I think the hardest thing about finding out you are a little and battling that little voice in your head saying "that is too childish!" Remember, that you can easily be a Little and handle all of your adult responsibilities. Think of the doctors who play in rock bands, or the teachers who go out and party in Amsterdam over the summer (two groups of people I actually know...), or how about the college student who has to stay up all night to study, yet on the weekends unwinds at a house party? It is the same thing. One identity does not cross out the other.

 

Some littles have trouble because they feel inferior or even less smart as a little in littlespace. Being little does not diminish you being an adult, it is actually the opposite. It takes a mature person to handle this dynamic because of all it can entail and all that surround it. So to be a little, you first must be an adult. That is what helped me realize it wasn't childish. It is calculated. And for some people, it is therapeutic. 

 

It took me 4 years to get into Littlespace for the first time. And by then I needed my Daddy, wine, accessories and constant assurance I wasn't acting like an idiot. Because that is how I felt. Like a person was singing on stage for the first time. No matter how good the voice may be, its the first time and it is daunting. That was me and littlespace. It was something I had to develop over time. And not even that! I couldn't call Daddy 'Daddy' for the first 2 months or so of our dynamic based relationship. I had to call him Sir because Daddy didn't feel right because of my insecurities. 

 

Ultimately what helped me get a grip and accept my identity was finding those who were also little. I came to this forum. And interacting with these amazing people (and even the people who have challenged me), I found more comfort in being my little self day by day. And this is because this forum normalized this mindset for me. Anywhere else and the way we think, talk, or act may come off as something negative. But here, we are among friends, family and a network of support, so it helps take the stigmas away and allows a person to calmingly explore themselves. 

 

Which is what I advise you to do - try making this dynamic 'normal' for you. Even if it is just for an hour a day, find a way to see that your little side and littlespace isn't something you should try to force, but instead... let it happen naturally! The biggest thing to remember is that everyone is attracted to different things and other things turn them off entirely. So when you are searching for those little, helpful triggers to help ease you into littlespace, don't go hunting for them, but rather just look around. Get a feel for what everything is and how you react to them. When you find something you are drawn to, go down that path and see what follows. It took all of that to get me into littlespace, but that isn't common. I know people who are triggered into littlespace just by researching their identity. They find out so many people are just like them and they get excited in not being alone. 

 

I am so excited for you and I am glad to hear youre happy about your new development of figuring out your little side! Remember that you have a ton of sources on this forum, so don't stick just with Daddies because you are a little. Make friends! Gain a support network and share experiences!     At the end of the day littlespace is difficult for some and easy for other. But it will only be easy if you let it happen naturally and organically. So just make some friends, read some threads and do a bit of research and self-reflection and you'll be more than okay. 

 

                    The only reason I requested a Daddy is because I usually don't get along very well with women. I'm not saying im not willing to give it a chance, but every time it becomes something shitty.. I'm totally open to it, i just don't seem to mix with women very well. Thank you so much for all your amazing advice, it's really helped me look at all of this a new way. I'll be sure to look to other littles, that makes a lot of sense actually lmao. please, feel free to add me if you'd like. I think im gonna make a list of stuff i enjoy.