Guest lilprincess1703 Posted August 21, 2018 Report Share Posted August 21, 2018 So, my daddy broke up with me... He did it over the phone, while in another country... I feel so sad and confused. Everything was going so well, and he did this complete 360. He says he met someone else. Before he left, he said he loved me and couldnt wait to see me again. And now he's like a different person. He's cold, and uncaring. I feel so lost. He introduced me to ddlg, and this breakup feels so unfair and deep. I was in an abusive relationship before I met him, so it was a big deal for me to be open and vulnerable with him. I feel like it's been thrown back in my face. He's gone back on all these plans and promises we made together. I dont know what to do, Im taking this very badly and feel so alone and low. Im finding it really hard to fight these feelings of inadequacy, that I wasnt enough for him. If I was, he wouldnt have met someone else while he was away, no? He flew back into the country again today, and it's so tough knowing he's here and I didnt meet him at the airport or anything. I dont know how to comfort myself, and have been feeling so anxious this past week knowing he doesnt want to be with me anymore. I have confusing feelings about my little self too, she feels like a part of me that I dont know what to do with anymore, as it was alway him who nurtured her, alongside nurturing big me. This is all such a sad sad shock. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueEyedDaddy Posted August 21, 2018 Report Share Posted August 21, 2018 To be honest, it sounds like you dodged a bullet even though I'm sure it feels more like you're being hit by one now. Relationships don't always last and it's worse when it's someone you have opened up to and experienced things with for the first time. Especially becoming a little. Here's the good news. Your little side is a part of you, it's not a part of him. You will always have that no matter if you're single or married, so embrace it. Suck on a Paci, cuddle with some stuffies and watch a Disney film, color or draw. Do something to distract yourself that makes you feel good. The other good news is that despite feeling like you lost something important, there is always going to be someone better. There are about 7 billion people on the planet and if he was willing to dump you like that, he's not even one of the better ones. Being single is temporary, use this time to find ways to love yourself and pamper your little self. Good luck and if you need someone to talk to feel free to message me. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lilprincess1703 Posted August 21, 2018 Report Share Posted August 21, 2018 Thank you yeah i know that eventually this will be something that im glad happened, but I just got to the point where I felt I was set - especially after everything that happened with my ex and all the issues that brought on. I think i might need to take a break from being little for a while. I got my onsie out and it just made me cry a little. But with some time i'm going to go back to reintroducing it to myself, by myself. Being on my own will be good for me. I get very dependent on partner's and really throw my whole self into relationships - meaning the fall is harder and hurts more... thank you for your kind words 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sleepless Posted August 21, 2018 Report Share Posted August 21, 2018 Honestly, he will probably realize that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Chances are, he will try to get you back. I've been through that situation, it's very common. I would advise that you block him so you aren't tempted to give him another chance. If he is willing to hurt you once, he will be willing to hurt you again. Keep yourself safe by making it impossible for him to contact you again. I bet if you stopped responding/contacting him and gave it 2-4 weeks he'd try to come back to you. That's why it's best to just erase him completely before that even happens. I know you might want More closure, but it's not worth possibly getting back into a relationship with someone who will most likely hurt you again. You are strong and can get through this. Time will heal this. Cry if you need to, but remember to take care of yourself still. Message me if you need someone to talk to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lilprincess1703 Posted August 21, 2018 Report Share Posted August 21, 2018 Yes I already plan to block once we've exchanged stuff etc. He definitely has a problem of grass is greener, I shouldve read the signs... I am strong, just tired of being so. Lots has happened to me to force me to be strong and brave, and just wanted an easy time for a while. But Ive got through worse stuff, so I can get through this. I am trying to look after myself, I have a great support network that I am so grateful for. Thank you so much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaresAlot Posted August 21, 2018 Report Share Posted August 21, 2018 When you have a relationship with somebody and its not an LDR relationship, breaking up is something you do in person. Unless there has been abuse or its not safe, then you don't telephone, text or any other form of communciation. Its not the easiest thing to do but its one of those things that show what kind of character that you have. It needs to be done one adult to another. A Daddy cannot be a Daddy without a Little because that is a title that a Little gives him. A Little can be a Little without a Daddy. Since you are new to all this, it gives you a chance to explore the things that you like as a Little. The more you know, the smarter you will be if and when you start looking for somebody new. You don't have to be alone, there are lots of Littles on here that would love to have another friend they can talk to. Sounds like you still have some closing out and exchange of stuff to do. Take the high road and be classy - he has already shown he's not. Don't waste your time trying to discuss or argue its a major wate of time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neworder Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 it will bite him in the ass one day; hypergamy is a game best played by women. you went from an abusive relationship, to a relationship where he only ghosted you. here's to the next one being a healthy relationship! *tinks wine glasses* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linden56 Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 hey i know what you are going through. itll be okay. dont make any rash decisions and stay around your friends. youll be okay flick me a message if you want to talk, Legit made a account just to write this.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lilprincess1703 Posted August 23, 2018 Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 Thank you everyone for you're responses. Im finding it all very difficult, but am surviving. Very much fluctuating between feeling positive about moving on, to crashing down with just being very sad and I guess 'pining' for what was... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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