When did you realize you are into this lifestyle?

[kujisa]

I realized this one night when we had friends staying over. I had work the next morning so I had to go to bed early, but I really wanted to stay up and have fun with them. My boyfriend firmly told me NO and asked do I need daddy to tuck me in to bed, all this in front of our friends. I felt a little embarrassed but also gushy and warm inside, and that's really when I understood I'm a little.

 

What are your stories?

[cutiepie002]

I don't have any story. I just don't like to be adult. I love playing with my toys, playing cute computer games, coloring etc. I need someone to take care of me. So this lifestyle is my lifestyle haha

[Guest LittlestMonkeyBoy]

There was no one moment for me either. It was a slow realization over a couple years as I was slowly sucked into this lifestyle, lol.

[LittleGirlEmilia]

*Walks in the room and takes shoes off and lies down on the couch*

 

Well, it all started way back.....

 

Just kidding hahha. I've always been like this, but a few years back my friend pointed it out to me and it was like a lightbulb moment.

[Guest Lightofmylife]

Well I don't have a story, but it took me time to find this community. I knew about bdsm but not the dd/lg and cg/l side. When I did found out about those, I then realized that I think I fit in the community, but at the same time I was in denial. I don't know exactly why I was in denial but I think it was because I was afraid of people saying negative things about me because of it. I guess I came to terms on accepting this side of me. But I do love video games, watching kids shows (at times) and I don't like going or doing things alone without having an authority figure around me (as in someone that is in charge) because I get scared lol But I think that's how I realized how I got into this lifestyle. 

 

At least now that I know it's possible to find someone that won't judge me for acting younger than my age. 

[Guest chubby_marshmallow]

I've kinda always had little tendencies, but I realized I did when an ex introduced me to this lifestyle. The relationship didn't last long, but a whole new world opened up for me, and I realized I wasn't a weirdo, or if I was there was a whole tribe of us, so that was comforting. 

[Guest little_ballerina]

I only found out into my first relationship. For me it was more a slow realization and acceptance than a moment.

 

The first clue happened as I was getting to know my now Daddy. In response to something I described, he said: "don't you think you were a bit young for that..." in a very serious Daddy like way which made me smile (I didn't understand why but I liked it). I said 'yes Daddy' somewhat sarcastically (in the way vanilla types use the word) but I was testing his response. I knew if he laughed it off it didn't mean anything. He didn't laugh it off

 

It was months into our relationship (which already had some D/s to it) when the puzzle pieces started falling together. I've always been playful when I'm relaxed but he makes me want to be extra playful and childlike in other ways too. This wasn't going unnoticed (Daddy likes how playful I am) and new realizations were happening in clever Daddy so he (bravely imo) brought up DDlg.

 

I'd heard of it before but had an idea that DDlg was only for people who age regress for play, have pacis and tons of stuffies, enjoy coloring etc (none of which interests me). In looking into it again, I worked out it does apply to me (there is no 'one way'). I was excited to be Daddy's little girl but a part of me was still a bit apprehensive bc it was all so new, a bit strange and very unexpected.

 

But as our relationship progressed and I explored this dynamic, I discovered how good it feels to be emotionally expressive without delay or filter, the way children naturally do. I realized that, with him as my watchful protector, I could return to this place of innocence where I trust completely, let go of fear and feel the same exuberance for life I had as a child. I found the depth of Daddy's love in combination with his authority super sexy which makes me even more a little bundle of giggles with him

 

How 'me' this lifestyle is and how happy it makes me became obvious. So did how exceptional my Daddy is at being a DD <3 and how fulfilling and natural it is for him. It took a while to get to this moment of 'hell yes, this is me, I desperately need this and wouldn't want to be any other way!' but I'm here now

[Guest DuckDaddy66]

We need a Daddy side to this. 

 

Well my girl friend and I fell into it.  We are both in a long distance relationship. We both had settled on that traditional monogamous DOM/SUB relationship.  Since I am 14 years older than her, she had been calling me Daddy both as a joke and somewhat serous.    I went to visit her, and she had been geeking. She whips out her iPAD and says "Read this! And, how many items on this list you do naturally?" It was a DDLG list of things that Daddy's should do.  As it turns out I had been doing about 80% of this list, I am a natural caretaker. The other 20% of the things were specific about littles and protecting them I was not aware of.  

 

Right there and then we made an effort to learn more about it and make this as part of our relationship structure. So are we into this lifestyle, I would say yes.  What is important to me and her, this lifestyle gives us the language and a set of rules to live by.  

 

BTW, when she was just visiting me, I would really get off (emotionally satisfying) on brushing her hair every night.  I would just brush away with this big stupid grin on my face. Now she has gone back north I miss her and brushing her hair. 

[admiralzealsgirl]

I read stories about DD/lg lifestyles on wattpad and such, and realized I had the same tendencies as a little. I then carried that into some relationships, but fell out with them. As of now, I am borderline little with my relationship with my boyfriend, and am completely happy with doing so. Though, as of late, I've been missing the DD/lg lifestyle more and more, so I might talk to my boyfriend about trying to integrate it into our relationship.

[Guest DuckDaddy66]

 

But as our relationship progressed and I explored this dynamic, I discovered how good it feels to be emotionally expressive without delay or filter, the way children naturally do. I realized that, with him as my watchful protector, I could return to this place of innocence where I trust completely, let go of fear and feel the same exuberance for life I had as a child. I found the depth of Daddy's love in combination with his authority super sexy which makes me even more a little bundle of giggles with him

 

 

And this is what it means to be in this lifestyle.  I am sure there is plenty of sex too.  It also helps if Daddy has a really good collection of cartoons too!

[Little_Midnight_Wolf666]

I Just Figured Out I'm A Little I'm Scared To Tell My Fiance And Wht He'll Think But I Can't Help I'll Be Fine Then The Next I'm In My Little Space I Knew I've Always Been Childish And Needing Either A Bottle Or Pacifer But I Never Understood I'm Scared How Ppl Ik Will React Plz Help?

[BabyBird0891]

We need a Daddy side to this. 

 

Well my girl friend and I fell into it.  We are both in a long distance relationship. We both had settled on that traditional monogamous DOM/SUB relationship.  Since I am 14 years older than her, she had been calling me Daddy both as a joke and somewhat serous.    I went to visit her, and she had been geeking. She whips out her iPAD and says "Read this! And, how many items on this list you do naturally?" It was a DDLG list of things that Daddy's should do.  As it turns out I had been doing about 80% of this list, I am a natural caretaker. The other 20% of the things were specific about littles and protecting them I was not aware of.  

 

Right there and then we made an effort to learn more about it and make this as part of our relationship structure. So are we into this lifestyle, I would say yes.  What is important to me and her, this lifestyle gives us the language and a set of rules to live by.  

 

BTW, when she was just visiting me, I would really get off (emotionally satisfying) on brushing her hair every night.  I would just brush away with this big stupid grin on my face. Now she has gone back north I miss her and brushing her hair. 

To add to DD66, I’ve always had a streak in me that needed to be taken care of, to feel totally safe, and like I don’t have to be the adult in charge (AIC) at all times. In RL, that’s exactly what I am (the AIC) - I’m a lawyer who runs my own firm, manages my own calendar, does the billing and drudge work, and literally does everything to keep my practice and home running reasonably smoothly. With many pets to care for as well.

 

My first marriage ended up being a total opposite situation, where I was the caretaker and I was essentially forced to be “mommy“ - I did not want to be that. I knew with every fiber of my being that that was not the kind of relationship I wanted. And that was always the fight - “I am not your mother”. Now, my ex is NOT a bad man, AT ALL, and you’ll never hear me say a bad word about him. That being said....

 

During a time of extreme hardship during that marriage where X was failing me at every turn, scaring the hell out of me almost daily, and was dealing with severe mental health issues, he gave me “permission” to have an emotional relationship with whoever I needed because he knew he wouldn’t be there for me. DD66, who was already my friend from a mutual outside interest, really stepped up to the plate to help me through that time - he was always there, to talk, vent, give advice, or just as a shoulder to cry on. Feelings naturally developed and I started looking to him as my rock - the one person I could always count on.

 

When I told X DD66 and I were developing feelings stronger than expected, he freaked out, and demanded I cut DD66 off, which I did out of respect for my marriage. After about a week, I realized exactly how much DD66 meant to me, and how much I needed his friendship, support and guidance. So, being an honest girl, I told X that giving DD66 up was not an option and I needed him.

 

Understandably, X was not happy, but even though I had broken his heart, when I called (or texted, can’t remember) and told him that I couldn’t give him up, DD66 was right there waiting. He has never left my side, even during that horrible week.

 

Now, I also knew DD66 was kinky by nature, as I am, but I hadn’t had a whole lot of opportunity to explore it, and X was totally vanilla. So I wanted to go there with DD66 - he’d earned my trust and I was willing to give him that power.

 

We started to explore “the dark side” and found we were extremely compatible...especially in the D/s dynamic. So I geeked out one day and discovered info about the DDlg lifestyle. I read this list of rules for Daddies, and the lightbulb went on. He has always done most of this without any formal agreement or even the conscious thought of what he was doing.

 

So I showed it to him to ask his thoughts and the lightbulb went on for him as well. So we agreed to explore it, and it’s been nothing but positive for us in our friendship and as a relationship. The certain structure, clear expectations, well defined roles which suit both our needs, and rituals we have developed when we can be together (we are still LDR - to be remedied in less than a year) all work perfectly for us. On the outside, our relationship looks a LOT like a traditional marriage - I cook, clean, hostess, etc, for the most part when we are together, but I let him take the lead in most everything else outside my kitchen. He respects my opinion and consults me on major decisions, but he also knows if he makes a decision for us, I’ll respect it, even if I don’t totally agree. For people who aren’t naturally inclined to such a dynamic, those roles are often hard to accept, but for us, it works so fluidly and easily, I couldn’t imagine it being different, and don’t want to.

 

This is the list I showed him that set everything in motion. Daddies/Mommy’s, if you aren’t sure if you’re really one, read it, it’ll help provide you with clarity. Littles, read it too, it might help you understand your own needs a little better.

http://www.daddybabygirl.com/advice-for-daddys.html

 

Love you DD66...