Am I doing it wrong?

[cutiepie002]

I don't know but maybe it's a reason why I have never had any real daddy.....

Many guys text me that they want to be my daddy. They get to know me a bit and they want me to call them daddy but lol...... I don't want it like that. I want to meet a guy, fall in love with him and then I want him to be my daddy!

 

Is it wrong? How did you found your daddies? Or daddies, how did you found your littles?

[LittleCelticLass]

It's not wrong. Daddy is a title you give. And you give it your way, in your own time. Personally, I am a slow mover. I can't just jump into calling someone Daddy. I have to get up know someone first.

[Guest You're adorable.]

I think it really has to do with the fact that they just want to quickly jump into the relationship and just want you to be their little. (I am just assuming from the little that you wrote). You have to find someone that will be genuinely interested in you, not because you are a little, but because you are you. And a person like that will definitely not mind taking it slow, get to know each other and eventually fall in love. Rushing relationship is a repeating problem in this community, from what I have observed and it's will not end up well in 99.9% cases.

 

I asked my little out after like 3 months of talking. I was making sure that aside from her being an adorable little, she also has the characteristics of a WOMAN that I want to date. You should make it perfectly clear that if they just want a little and not a woman that you also are, they should look elsewhere. Lastly I want to say that finding the right person takes time. I know it's very discouraging to repeatedly come across people that want something else that you want and I know it sounds like a cliche but don't lose hope. It might take months, maybe even years but I am sure you will eventually stumble across a person that will want you as a whole package.

[Aaziz832]

A Daddy won’t tell you to call him Daddy! You will choose a Daddy of your liking yourself and maybe it’ll slip out calling him Daddy, or in some sense y’all will have a great understanding of each other and y’all will know where you stand with one another! For the falling in Love part, take your time with that because one of the worst things is a broken heart! Healing time takes forever and a day! You find one another by communicating as much as possible! Get to know him/her or whatever get identify themselves as! Ask as many questions as it comes to your head without holding anything back!!!! Tell him your likes, dislikes, how your day has been if he’s not asked to give him a small hint of what they might need to ask next time lol! Overall, it’s all trial and error!

[Guest DaddyyJay]

For me my recent ex introduced to the ddlg life style but we had been a "normal" couple months before hand

Had already told each other that we loved one another then one day she told me about being little and having a daddy and I was confused at first but went with it... after weeks it just felt natural to be called that and not even in a sexual way.

I was happy to be her daddy and she my little but things happened.

So for a daddy to be called daddy in my opinion he maybe taking it more like a sexual way than being an actual daddy..and if that's the case they probably aren't the daddy for you