More sadness than happiness

[Guest AMS23]

It seems over the past few years I’ve been off and on here I have found more sadness that outweighs the happiness.

 

A lot of times I will talk with another little and out of nowhere they will say we shouldn’t be friends anymore. I’m not talking break up stuff here though I’ve obviously had that too. But I’m a super sensitive person and would love to actually keep some little friends. Why I’ve posted this in the general area is because I’m left wondering... with such a quick lack of communication from them I wonder fin it was me? Something I’ve said? Talked too much? Regardless each time this has happened I’ve been super happy with them conversation and then one day we wake up and poof they are no longer munch friend. I Never even sad it coming. It’s super sad to me because I’m not a bad girl I don’t think.

 

I have no way of finding out why they don’t want to be friends anymore. This has happened numerous times.

 

 

Suggestions?

[LittleGirlEmilia]

It's not you. I'm very much a little's little. I'm at my happiest talking to other littles and befriending them as I feel I don't have too much in common with doms and littles/middles are cute!

 

I think it all comes down to compatibility. There's some littles that just don't get on well with others or they don't want to have a friendship, which is all okay. We're all here for different things. It takes time to build up friendships and you'll get hurt along the way as people come and go, but the friendships that stick are worth it. The staff team is my wee family and I'm really lucky to have them.

 

I also have friends from chat that I absolutely adore, but it's not something that has happened over night.

 

My only suggestion is keep trying and eventually you'll find yourself with friends that make you happy and give you butterflies. It's worth it.

[Guest AMS23]

Awww thanks so much Barbie! Ugh yeah I feel I’m the same way. The friendships I make hit me so hard almost worse than a breakup haha

 

I agree on compatibility for sure too. I mean this last one I thought we hit it off well haha I’ll never know.

 

Until then I suppose I’ll just have to make another friends page!

[sullenDaddybones]

Yeah, I spent 9 months with a wonderful relationship with a Little from California and suddenly one day they seemed to be absent all the time. We both got a little upset and we both talked very little sense, deleting each other's contact information. It seemed we were both alike. Hotheaded at the other, one for not talking and the other for not receiving understanding. Tempers can flare, friendships can be strained even on-line. 

 

The reality was I think we wore out everything two people could say in 9 months! Learned everything we could and were the best of buddies through a lot of good and bad times. Unfortunately nothing lasts forever....

 

My longest on-line, phone made relationship lasted from 1994 to 2008-2009 on and off. Another 6 years non stop nearly...

 

Chemistry and well in the ole days people seemed to stay connected a lot longer. As I do not hear many people keeping connections like they us to? Or someone can correct me. 

[Guest AMS23]

I was in a long relationship as well. I was married for 6 years to a master who taught me a ton about bdsm and life in general!