Need help with Daddy

[Little_Baby_Squish]

My Daddy seems into me being little and not at the same time.

 

Like I’m allowed pacis, dips, onesies, stuffies, but when it comes to other things like little foods and clothes he says no

 

I don’t know what to do, how do I explain to Daddy what it means to me to be able to get deep in little space.

[Guest Appacheian]

Both daddy’s and littles aren’t necessarily into the dynamic at the same depth. Great if you both are. There can be areas either is not as comfortable with as the other. Or doesn’t need that depth personally. You really need to explain and communicate the areas such as foods and clothing thst are important to your little space. If you both can’t come to an agreement then you have to indulge when you are alone.it sounds like he’s uncomfortable seeing you in little clothes for some reason. Just as some daddy’s insist it and need it. There has to be compromise too so you may not get all the freedoms you wish to experience.

[Little_Baby_Squish]

Both daddy’s and littles aren’t necessarily into the dynamic at the same depth. Great if you both are. There can be areas either is not as comfortable with as the other. Or doesn’t need that depth personally. You really need to explain and communicate the areas such as foods and clothing thst are important to your little space. If you both can’t come to an agreement then you have to indulge when you are alone.it sounds like he’s uncomfortable seeing you in little clothes for some reason. Just as some daddy’s insist it and need it. There has to be compromise too so you may not get all the freedoms you wish to experience.

Thank you. I had a bit of a talk with Daddy and he said I can do more little stuff (clothes and food) as long as I balance it out with sub time

[Guest Appacheian]

I’m glad you now have resolved it.

[PrinzeCharming]

I am glad you can both communicate your feelings effectively. That alone will help you reach goals, grow, and develop together. Take a concept of ddlg each day, and experiment with it. Allow daddy to familiarize himself with what you enjoy doing, and maybe he'll take an interest into it as well. If it makes you any happier, I am sure he'll invest more time into it. It's a learning process, and the best part is bonding together while discovering what you both enjoy the most. As Appa mentioned, daddy's showing signs of discomfort and there needs to be a compromise between you two to balance things out. As it's always nice to have what you want, there needs to be an achieveable, mutual, goal set and you work together to make it happen. I am sure you'll be fine. Good luck! 

[Guest Prat]

That's not right.. You should be allowed to be the little you want to be and have the little space you want to have, not just parts of it that suit your Daddy..(unless if you agreed to some rules that refer to those parts specifically.)

 

And what does "balancing it out with sub time" even mean?

[Little_Baby_Squish]

That's not right.. You should be allowed to be the little you want to be and have the little space you want to have, not just parts of it that suit your Daddy..(unless if you agreed to some rules that refer to those parts specifically.)

 

And what does "balancing it out with sub time" even mean?

“Balancing it out with sub time” means that my Daddy isn’t sexual when I’m little, so I sub to him, he is my Daddy and my Dom, depends if I’m in Littlespace or Sub space