Guest AlisonS23 Posted September 30, 2018 Report Share Posted September 30, 2018 Reading all these breakups on here and having been there myself. You all have helped me so much to get through those tough ones. That said this has got me to remember the good breakups I’ve had! has anyone had a good breakup? Or a good breakup story I mean? My favorite breakup has to be a guy I dated for a while. Tall,dark hair, blue eyes and very strong! He was just a great guy.. personality wise we clicked very well. We had amazing times together and he was someone I could always go to for help or advice. That said we ended up in two very different spots in life. He wanted to move states for work and we both decided we wanted to explore other people. (Both of us not wanting to do a ldr again) we were both sad and both shed some tears. We sat on the couch and he held me in his arms while whispering encouraging words in my ear. Fed me dinner. Filled my gas tank up gave me a couple hundred dollars to buy something nice as a breakup gift. We said our final goodbyes and kissed and break it off. Clean break! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest QueenJellybean Posted September 30, 2018 Report Share Posted September 30, 2018 my ex-boyfriend & i lived long distance & we weren't able to see each other in person for a couple years. i was going through intensive therapy & he was starting a new job & a new relationship (we're polya) so things just didn't feel like they did when we first started. we still love each other a lot & intend to visit, but we did have to break up. it was mutual & a little bittersweet, but we're still very close. ten/ten best break up i've ever had. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AlisonS23 Posted September 30, 2018 Report Share Posted September 30, 2018 Aww yeah! That’s a good one! Yeah they can be bittersweet but the clean breaks are great to hear others have had that too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bunnyblossom Posted September 30, 2018 Report Share Posted September 30, 2018 All my breakups turned out to be Good Breakups. They've all been friends with me afterwards when it's been on my end, and the ones who've broken up with me have ended up contacting me up to like 2-3yrs later just to tell me they missed me and was the only person who really 'got them' and 'didn't take any of their shit'. None of that matters to me, cuz I got my Daddy. But that's just been my experience over the years. And the ones who were gracious enough to stay friends, we're friends for a reason. Cuz they're rad, and know I wasn't out to hurt them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Illy Posted October 2, 2018 Report Share Posted October 2, 2018 Before I met Daddy, I thought he was The One That Got Away. I was dating a man when I was in college, 4hrs away from my home town. We met in a bar, chatted and found we had eerily similar connections. He had family in my home town, he knew of the soccer league my brother was a part of (because his niece was too!) and after another date we found we both had pre-scheduled a trip back home (for me) and home to the family (for him) on the same weekend. So we ended up dating, we took a few trips home together and it was going really, really well. We had so much in common and we both enjoyed each other's company. Then one night we were having a discussion and he politely said he needed to have a chat. He was feeling uncomfortable with our age difference. We had discussed it a few times prior and he said it didn't bother him. Now, a few months into the relationship we are getting to the point to take it to the next level and he is getting really anxious about it. I get it, he is 16 years older and has another niece only a few years younger than me. I totally understand. So we part ways yet decide to remain friends. We hung out a few times but then life took me to a different part of the state and then a different country. But we are still friends. We are connected on facebook and we chat every now and again. And honestly? I think there will always be kind feelings for one another because there really was no negative aspect of us meeting, dating, and parting. Sure we both were disappointed - we were still friends, we confided and consoled each other. But we both know it was the best thing for us in the end. Now I am with Daddy, and he is with a women closer to his age and the four of us are extremely happy. And he and I are extremely happy for the other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Arc Posted October 2, 2018 Report Share Posted October 2, 2018 I knew someone back when I was in school. He was older and at university. We both had a mountain of mental health issues each at the time and sadly things just did not work out. The age difference was by far the hardest because my high school events would have bored him and I wasn't able to go to uni events. We also were not in the right mental state for any kind of relationship. It was really sad that it didn't work out, honestly. Neither of us were ready and it was simply a wrong place wrong time relationship. Anyway we reconnected and started talking again recently and he's still a super nice guy. Still makes me smile and is still as sweet as before. He follows me on IG and likes all my photos and compliments me on different things which makes me smile. After exams when I have time to travel I really hope to meet with him. ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AlisonS23 Posted October 2, 2018 Report Share Posted October 2, 2018 Thanks guys! These were so great to read! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now