punishing naughty behaviours

[PrincessSnorlax]

 how many of you enjoy being naughty and mischievous, or even maybe deliberately break rules just for a punishment?  i don't do it often, rarely at all in fact but sometimes i just want to be punished. i want to know how hard the belt/flogger/paddle/hand can hit my skin. sometimes i just want to feel that pleasurable pain. do anybodies else feel this way sometimes and be naughty on purpose just for a punishment? 

[BabyBeans]

A big YES from me. Honestly I love breaking rules purposely for punishments.. But sadly it hasn't happened in a while, since I've been single for a long time! lol. One day.. One day..     

[Guest QueenJellybean]

hi!

what you're talking about sounds a lot like funishments! 

these is a really common, consensual form of punishment play where both members involve know that the provoker is doing it

intentionally to get a rise out of the provokee & thusly the punishment that they are so desiring. 

it's a mutually-beneficial situation where both players know that the end result will be something, fun & enjoyable release, or punishment! 

 

i think this gets confused a lot with behavior/rules being broken in a way that would genuinely upset the dominant, therefore provoking them into doling out a punishment where one person knows what they were doing, & the other is genuinely upset with the submissive's behavior.

this is what a lot of folks think brats do, when in reality, i think a lot of brats are just seeking that funishment release! 

 

personally, funishment plays a big part in my dynamics with predator/prey. 

i like to push when we both know i'm going to give in & take my punishment! 

[Guest Swadloon]

I'm the exact opposite of this XD  "Big" me is a piece of work.  Big me sasses and needles people, sometimes just to get a rise out of them.  Big me doesn't give a crap about rules and will break them whenever I see fit - the only rules I won't break are ones where I'll get arrested immediately or booted out of grad school if I do.  If I think a rule is stupid?  May as well not exist. Big me will push my luck and take chances and only think about the impending shit-storm or disciplinary action if it actually happens.

 

In contrast, a huge, defining part of my littlespace is being a perfect angel - obedient, willing to follow rules and instructions, and always aiming to please. If I do end up breaking one of Daddy's rules, I do get punished, which can be sort of fun in the moment - but it doesn't make me want to go out of my way to break more rules and get punished again! When I end up accidentally doing something naughty, I make a note to try my hardest not to do it again and be a good boy for Daddy.

[Little Illy]

This is why Daddy and I have a clear distinction between Punishments and Funishments.

 

Daddy and I believe in TPE  and because of this, true behavior modification (with consent of course). And for this, we require actual punishments that are upsetting enough to be a deterrent. 

 

However... the Funishments... those are real people. And we love them

[Guest Arc]

I'd never deliberately break a rule because that would result in a real punishment... but being extra cheeky or playful for a spanking or "funishment" is a lot of fun. 

 

Punishment and funishment are very different to me. Because as someone who often has a higher than average level of protocol in their D/s relationships.... breaking a rule isn't fun or playful or anything like that. It's bad. It deserves a real punishment which is not enjoyable and is not something I'd ever want. 

[Little Illy]

Punishment and funishment are very different to me. Because as someone who often has a higher than average level of protocol in their D/s relationships.... breaking a rule isn't fun or playful or anything like that. It's bad. It deserves a real punishment which is not enjoyable and is not something I'd ever want. 

 

So many people prefer the lighter side of rules and punishments in this dynamic. Im glad Daddy and I aren't the only ones, Arc. 

[Guest Arc]

I guess it's largely to do with me being into BDSM and not ddlg. There's plenty of people out there who like having a greater level of protocol and rules and punishments and whatever else, but ddlg tends to be more gentle than BDSM (not always - just in general) so you probably won't see as many around here ^^ 

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Daddy and I incorporate elements of master/slave into ours.

And I prefer not to break rules and be ‘disobedient’, because that’s not playful to me. That’s displeasing my dude.

 

But the last few months have been a free for all \(^o^)/ wheeeeeeee

[SmartAssLittle]

 how many of you enjoy being naughty and mischievous, or even maybe deliberately break rules just for a punishment?  i don't do it often,

 

Last time when I push him too far he tied me and gone for 4 hours. I was soooo mad. I didn't want that sort of punishment.

 

That bastard was so smart.

[Hearteyes]

[Guest Titanium]

 

what you're talking about sounds a lot like funishments! 

these is a really common, consensual form of punishment play where both members involve know that the provoker is doing it 

Funishments. Wow! I never knew there was a term for this. I have learned a new word.

Funishment seems to be at the core of so many Littles I’ve met and I just naturally and intuitively go right into it when a Little hints around that she is desiring that to happen. By nature I never force anything to happen but if I perceive that some activity is desired, then I normally will comply since the enjoyment that a Little experiences is what in turn makes me enjoy it as well.

[CherieBits]

I think im too much of a good girl for my daddy to do naughty things for funishments ;;v;; they sound super fun though!!