Different Takes on CG/l!

[Guest Swadloon]

Moon here, and I've got a question for ya! 

 

Does anyone here consider themselves to be in an "unconventional" version of a CG/l relationship, or does anyone incorporate the dynamic into their relationships in less common ways?

 

For context, my Daddy and I are noticing that things between us appear to be shifting from the more "standard" description of CG/l, which is where we started when we first decided to incorporate the dynamic into our relationship! For one, it turns out that he has a little side too! It started with him wanting to join in when I was busying myself with "little" activities, and he eventually told me that he feels little sometimes!  When we're both in littlespace, it pushes me to regress to a younger age than usual, so some days I have a Big Bro rather than a Daddy!  It's actually helped me learn so much about my own littlespace.  I realize that I can have tons of fun just hanging with another little and enjoying just being little - I don't always need the guiding hand of a Daddy.  Even if he wanted to be little all the time, so long as he's not "littler" than me and can still kind of keep me in line...I think I'd be able to adapt to that.

 

Also, we're starting to really enjoy situations where the dynamic is flipped on its head and the little is in charge - think a little, childish, petulant prince and his loyal steward! Not being a brat though, as I'm allowed to order him around without getting punished (at least, until I've pushed him too far and he's had enough...)  I never imagined myself in this sort of role in a million years,  but it turns out this feels very natural...

 

So, how do you and your partner put your own, personal spin on CG/l? I'd love to hear about it!

[Guest QueenJellybean]

although i'm not actively engaged in any cg relationships, some of The Giant's partners identify as littles

& i act as a big sister to them because i've got some small tendencies myself! it's my unorthodox way of still being engaged actively in the dynamic!

 

in my own, personal relationships, i find a draw aspects from the community rather than identifying as any set titles. 

i have some small tendencies & most of my partners have some nurturing qualities, a softer side to their Dominant positions. 

we draw the attributes that we admire the most from this dynamic & incorporate it into our own to create a new breed entirely! 

[alwayscurious]

I have a play partner I'm like that with. Sometimes she's my Mommy, sometimes I'm her Daddy. I'm curious about trying a sibling dynamic. That could be fun!

[Guest Swadloon]

Thanks for sharing! 

 

Jellybean, It's interesting how you have different elements of the dynamic in play with different partners!  I'm imagining what that might be like, to have certain elements of the CG/l come out with one person, and totally different ones with another! 

 

And alwayscurious, I wasn't sure about the sibling dynamic at first myself but I find it's super fun! I'm almost more partial to it now than anything! When my bf is my Big Bro, we become partners in crime - bouncing crazy ideas and schemes off of each other and driving the energy level in the room up to 11 as littles together tend to do! Our respective littlespaces are not non-sexual and we've had some of the most intense, un-restrained fun together with that dynamic in place >////<

 

Daddy and I aren't into polyamory or having more than one play partner (or at least not currently interested, I never say never about anything in life, that's my philosophy), so we have to switch things up among ourselves

Edited October 5, 2018 by Brightmoon

[RainbowPigtails]

I haven't done a lot of exploring yet, but I think I find the sibling dynamic more appealing than anything. I don't want someone to decide what I can and can't do, but to have someone along with me for the ride. Coincidentally, I also thought about a servant/prince(ss) dynamic where I get to lord over my partner, at least for a little while. Right now (as in literally a couple of minutes ago) I've decided to take the approach of being my own caregiver so I learn how to be more self-reliant and responsible. I think I'd like being a middle switch where I take turns with a partner.