Family road trip and abdl

[Guest Ittybittyberry]

Hewwo I hope I can get some advice , oon I will be driving in a car with my family to Texas. I know it will be very boring that is why I am bringing color ing books and crayons and maybe a stuffies to but I'm worried about the stressfulbess of it as I use my diapes as support. I war goodnightes so some what descreete. IM just a little worried about being in a car with my whole family . With a diaper on and me wanting to bring some of my small abdl items. Help ! How would you handle this?

[MadelynVictoria]

I personally would just put that aside for the duration of the trip. I'd be too worried about my family somehow finding out, or finding my things

[Guest Arc]

What would worry you more? The thought of a family trip not wearing a diaper, or being on a family trip where they find out and you have to spend the rest of that trip with them knowing?

 

I'd personally think it would be better just to leave the diapers for a few days. When you're in such a small space there's not much you can hide easily.  Things happen. Someone opens the wrong bag and oh look.... there's all your stuff on display. :/ That's me though. Really just depends on if you're willing to risk it. 

 

Colouring books and crayons are fine though. A lot of people use colouring for relaxation so if they question what you're doing you have so many things you could tell them. 

[angelcarebear]

I would honestly wait till you're not with family. Maybe you could bring coloring books and a stuffed animal. As far as abdl goes, if you are afraid of them finding out I would seriously maybe consider just leaving things at the house and watch cartoons on your phone. I think you'd worry more about being caught having all of that stuff and than it'd be an equally stressful trip. 

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i hate to put it out there in a more serious manner, but the way i think about it is this. 

do i consider the stuff that i'm using part of my kink? 

if so, i have no business doing it around my family, imho. 

 

even if it's a secret thing, i'm not sure i'd ever be comfortable wearing a onesie around my family, or something similar.

it might be a big relief for you to not have to worry about that, too! 

[Lola Step]

As the others have said- If something is alot more noticeable or "abnormal" (Put in quotation marks because I DO NOT mean that in a bad way, just simply from the point of view of your family) maybe it would be best to put them on hold. However there are a few things you should be okay with taking such as colouring book, crayons, books, games, even a stuffie or toy and simply explain them away as boredom busters. As for other "little" items instead of taking a full blown baby's bottle perhaps you could take a more adult looking sippy cup and just say that you don't want to spill anything in the car? As for the diapers if you really must wear them I would stick to the most thinnest, discreet ones possible and if anybody hears any plastic rustling just say (If you are a cisFemale, I am assuming here and I do apologise if I'm wrong) that you are on your period and it's a pad, in my past experience nobody ever wants to talk about "womens problems" so that should be awkward enough for them to believe you and drop the subject immediately. Anyway good luck on your trip

[Guest Ittybittyberry]

I'm sorry if this was a bad question to post. I don't really know if I could consider my items as kinks because ive never had a Dom . So everything I do is by myself . For myself my objects and items are coping methods. I was more concerned about what can I do to pass the time . With little items that are descreete. Thank you to all who have commented!

[Guest Aetherr]

you dont need to do it with a partner for it to be a kink, its a kink if you get pleasure from it, its a lifestyle if you do it for another purpose such as coping mechanism or it just being something you feel most comfortable doing and it being sexual or even non sexual, it sounds like a lifestyle for you, and as far as i am concerned you should be considerate of the people around you and put that lifestyle on hold for a few days, if you were to ask me the worst thing that could happen is if my family found out about my lifestyle and kink, regardless of if they accept it or not, its just not something i would personally share with anyone unless they expressed an interest in knowing about it..

 

also it was not a bad question, like the others said its not our place to say you shouldn't do it but there is nothing stopping us from saying what we would do if we were in your situation and what we think about your situation in general