Survey: When did "daddy" start?

[southernbelle]

Newbie, just looking for solidarity/advice, so we can develop our relationship knowing others have done so before us, and thus without feeling ashamed.

 

1. How did you start calling your Daddy "daddy", or your other honorific?

 

2. When was the first time, if you remember it?

 

3. What do they call you?

 

and, one very specific question:

 

4. For those of you who call your SO Daddy/other honorific during sex times, and it began as such, how did you transition to doing so OUTSIDE of sexual situations? Can you remember how?

 

^^^that's the bit I'm having trouble with right now. i wanna and he wants me to but I'm still shy about it.

[Guest Arc]

In general I've started calling partners by titles/honorifics when the dynamic starts. It's a respect thing to me, so after all the details of the dynamic are sorted out I personally just start out of respect. But just wait until it feels right for you. For some people it may be instant and for others it may take time to feel settled into the dynamic and feel comfortable enough to use those titles. 

 

I remember the first time I called my ex daddy. I've always been in D/s relationships beforehand and we'd always used "Sir," so changing to "Daddy" was new and terrifying for me lol. It felt unnatural. As embarassing as it is to say I actually practiced saying "Daddy" in private because I was afraid when I said it to him it would sound unnatural or forced. I had to basically train myself to remember to say "Daddy" rather than "Sir." It was maybe a week or so after we met and we were messing around over the phone and I managed to say it. After a few times it just felt more natural and I never thought about it again. 

 

My favourite pet names are "babygirl" and "little one." I'm also quite fond of "mine" lol. Different relationships I've been in have had different nicknames or pet names so that has varied for me. 

 

I've often called partners by their titles even outside of sex or play. It feels natural to me and I'm not sure I ever had a time where I had to transition to using titles in both. ._. However... I'm not sure how well it would work, but since you want to be comfortable to do it it may be an idea. You could incorporate it slowly into some things and not others. When you are asking for things could be a good start - for example for candy you'd have to ask "May I have some some candy, Daddy?" But if you just said "May I have some candy?" he would prompt you with "may I have some candy, what?" And you'd repeat with the title. It may not work for you but at least for me having to say it to get something I want, and having that prompt to be corrected if I forget would help. Because you have to say it and if you don't you get told to say it. Just start small. You don't need to start by addressing him as Daddy every sentence at first. Just little steps and one day you'll catch yourself saying it without thinking ^^

[MadelynVictoria]

The first two questions can be answered as one lol. Daddy was visiting me, and we were cuddling on my couch, and he suddenly asked me if I was enjoying cuddling with daddy. I then started calling him daddy from there on out lol. I called him it during sex at first, but transitioned to calling him daddy outside of the bedroom shortly after. We had discussed a ddlg relationship before this had started, so I think talking about it, and him referring to himself as daddy first was what made it easy for me to start calling him daddy. He has so many names for me lol. He calls me babydoll, babygirl, babyloves, honeybun, and some others that I can't share

[prince eefy]

1. How did you start calling your Daddy "daddy", or your other honorific?

I think we just started talking about me having a caregiver and I asked if he wanted to be my caregiver/daddy and he said yes. we slowly eased into it and he had do sort of push me (in a good, gentle way) to call him daddy, but i started doing it a year ago.

2. When was the first time, if you remember it?

basically what i said above. as for irl, i believe.. it was the first time we met, he was staying at my moms house and we were hanging out and being cute and stuff and i was in little space (though too shy to fully go into it at the time), and i called him daddy, i think?

3. What do they call you?

he calls me baby, little one, angel, his little angel, so many cute names.

[Lynnie]

Lol I had accidentally said it one time during sex while we were in the shower and then afterwards he asked “did you call me daddy” and I was so embarrassed and we joked about it for a while then it stuck and I only really said it during sex and after a few times he started calling me baby and then I started saying it a little bit outside of sex then finally asked him is actual opinion on it and he told me he loves it.