Guest Wytchwolfy Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 Right, im sorry for posting this here but right now, i just need somewhere to rant. So im going through a pretty hard time right now, on so many levels...to the point that im now bursting into tears completely randomly...i bend over backwards for my friends...and im always there for them, no matter what...so how come when im at my lowest and i ask for help, suddenly everyone is busy...i never ask for help...from anyone, im so tired of being fine...if it wasnt for one online friend id have packed up and left yesterday. I dont expect a reply folks, i just needed to try get this off my chest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleGirlEmilia Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 It's a difficult one. My mum always taught me to treat others how I want to be treated, but that never works out, then my dad on the other hand kept advising me to not help people unless they help me first. I'm still trying to figure it all out, I don't think anyone ever does tbh. I have noticed that the less people in my life, the easier it is. I have a small group of friends that I trust wholeheartedly and I feel lucky to have them. In this situation I would say... Cut the negativity from your life and you'll feel so much lighter. Sorry if I'm not much help .-. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wytchwolfy Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 Hey thanks for the support, i only have a small group of close friends, thats the problem, i asked my best friend for help tonight...but he finished work 30 min later than expected so went home instead.he was surposed to be coming over to stay the night, and keep me company lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleGirlEmilia Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 Hey thanks for the support, i only have a small group of close friends, thats the problem, i asked my best friend for help tonight...but he finished work 30 min later than expected so went home instead.he was surposed to be coming over to stay the night, and keep me company lol I mean, I guess that's fair? He could have just had a bad day at work. Sometimes I go home on my way to work because I can just feel it's going to be one of those days lol. After a long day of work nothing feels better than flopping on your own bed. I'm sure he had full intentions of coming over to begin with but didn't feel up to it perhaps? I'm just speculating though. He could be a bad friend, I don't know haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wytchwolfy Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 No hes a great friend...but people seem oblivious to ewhen im struggling, im too good at hiding it most of the time lol...i know they dont mean it maliciously...they just tend not to think. Even when i literally tell them lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleGirlEmilia Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 No hes a great friend...but people seem oblivious to ewhen im struggling, im too good at hiding it most of the time lol...i know they dont mean it maliciously...they just tend not to think. Even when i literally tell them lol Aaahhh, okay. I get you now. I know the type lol. That's totally sucky then. I don't have any good advise for you sadly but I hope things look up for you soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wytchwolfy Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 Ah thank you for your kind wishes 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticSand Posted October 21, 2018 Report Share Posted October 21, 2018 Hang in there! I agree with what Barbie said about cutting negativity from your life. Sometimes as a super giving soul, it's difficult to see that your efforts are actually 'above and beyond' when in fact you think your efforts should actually be seen as just normal. In an ideal world, everyone would be amazingly wonderful and giving. Unfortunately, humans are just not built that way and it's a lot of take take take. 8( It's hard to set expectations knowing that people are that way. But, know too that like that diamond in the rough, you'll eventually find that wonderful friend who's at that same level of giving and attention that you are. I hope! There really is a lot of rough to sift through! I'm sorry to hear you're having a real down time right now and am glad that you were able to post just to have your words heard and to be able to reach out. Don't be afraid to let those feels out! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SquishyUnicorns Posted October 21, 2018 Report Share Posted October 21, 2018 Sad to say but THIS is why I gave up on friends. I gave my all, easy there for them, but never once were they there for me when I needed it. Been treated like one sided friendships for too long, always treated like they kept me around only when they needed me, as some sort of back up friend. So I left, gave up on the whole idea of friendship and that was it. I still try occasionally with the idea of online friendships but at the end of the day I think everyone's just out for themselves. Kinda pessimistic but it's all I've seen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wytchwolfy Posted October 21, 2018 Report Share Posted October 21, 2018 Thanks guys, i really dont blame my friends, they are great...but im the "Strong" one...they just dont seem to realise i need help too sometimes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wytchwolfy Posted October 21, 2018 Report Share Posted October 21, 2018 (edited) haha morning update...so my friends have started messaging....aaron how do i do this...aaron whats that thing called...aaron wheres this place....aaron....aaron....aaron.... ......not happening today im afraid!!! there is only 1 person on my mind atm...and its not my local friends Edited October 21, 2018 by Wytchwolfy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wytchwolfy Posted October 21, 2018 Report Share Posted October 21, 2018 Just a quick update...again...just because if i dont laugh...ill cry...so ive just lost 2 months of college work...followed by electrocuting myself from mains power...i am touching nothing else today...youtube only lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticSand Posted October 21, 2018 Report Share Posted October 21, 2018 haha morning update...so my friends have started messaging....aaron how do i do this...aaron whats that thing called...aaron wheres this place....aaron....aaron....aaron.... ......not happening today im afraid!!! there is only 1 person on my mind atm...and its not my local friends I hope that one person you have on your mind is you!! Self-care is so important! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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