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In what way? Does he want you to not be a little altogether or does he want you out of little space to interact as adults?

 

If he wants you to not be little altogether.... nobody should ever change who you are. They should love you completely - every part of you. And someone who doesn't love all of you is not worth your time because there is someone out there will think you are perfect as you are. 

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Does he want you to have a vanilla relationship? Or like Arc said, does he want an adult discussion that you need to not be little for?

 

I need more context to be semi helpful lol ^^

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He wants me to stop being little altogether he thinks it'll help me let go of something that happened in my past

 

I don't understand his logic, but if being little helps then keep being little. You shouldn't have to give up who you are, especially if you like who you are.

 

You should seek professional help if you are struggling with anything mental health related.

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I'm not sure I understand it either, honestly. If it's something unhealthy that you should move on from then there are plenty of other ways to do that. Like seeing a professional, as Barbie suggested, and figuring out a proper plan of how to manage things and move forward. You shouldn't have to give up a part of yourself or change in any way that you do not want to. 

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Not only has everyone (with a special nod to Barbie) given sound advice, I would go further.  Not only shouldn't have to give up who you are, especially if you like who you are - but it may be dangerous and cause harm to you to do so.  You might find this weird coming from a Daddy, but I have DID.  Included in 'Team Us' is a 13-14 yo slider named Lori, a kind-hearted six year old named Sonseearae, and a two year old named Micah.  I have a therapist (I think everyone should have one and we should care for our mental health as much as our physical health) who has strongly advised not integrating (not that we were going to anyway) because we have become, in her words, more than the sum of our parts.  They are my family and family is forever.  Like Stitch sez, even if "It's little and broken, but still good.  Yup, still good."  You fix broken families, you don't throw them away.  Good luck!

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Im new to this site and lookin for a daddy Dom and learning to be a LITTLE GIRL how do i go about it and what do i do?

 

#DDLG

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Im new to this site and lookin for a daddy Dom and learning to be a LITTLE GIRL how do i go about it and what do i do?

 

#DDLG

for starters, don't comment on threads with things like this unless it's specifically dedicated toward that. try introducing yourself in the introduction section of the site! <3

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for starters, don't comment on threads with things like this unless it's specifically dedicated toward that. try introducing yourself in the introduction section of the site! <3

 

 

Sorry and thanks for the info i appreciate it :)

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