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    #1 ~*Kitten*~



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    Posted 04 January 2019 - 12:13 AM

    Hi... I was just curious if it is wrong for me to not want to give my kik or snapchat out right away? I have had a few people get upset with me on here already about it, and I was just wondering if I am in the wrong... Thank you for your time!

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    Posted 04 January 2019 - 12:23 AM

    My kik is purely for kink and DDLG stuff, so I personally don't mind using it because it's alot easier to chat with someone rather than use the PM feature here, but if they get pissy when you don't wanna give out that stuff right away...then they're whiners and impatient. Worse, they may want to circumvent some rules on this forum and talk about sketchy shit that would probably get them a ban here. 

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    #3 DustBunny93


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    Posted 04 January 2019 - 12:29 AM

    It is not wrong.

    I don't give my Kik out or any other social media such as Snapchat. I only do once I feel a connection with the person who I am talking to. I will tell them right away that I don't give it out.
    I have had people get mad at me too.

    Do what is best for you and don't worry if people get mad.
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    #4 ladybug°rain


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    Posted 04 January 2019 - 12:42 AM

    I think that if you're not comfortable w/ giving out that info than there's nothing wrong w/ that. It could be more personal to you than it is to other people, like depth_of_field_ddlg, who only uses his for kink and ddlg stuff. Anyways, you're not in the wrong at all and if someone is being pushy about it then maybe they aren't the friend for you.
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    #5 Alaskan Daddy

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    Posted 04 January 2019 - 02:07 AM

    it is not wrong at all. You need to do what is comfortable for you. If someone gets upset by what you do and cannot be patient they are not worth your time. They are being selfish. Remember your feelings matter.

    Good Luck

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    #6 Guest_Prat_*

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    Posted 04 January 2019 - 06:08 AM

    Nothing wrong with that.
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    #7 DaddyDom3238


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    Posted 04 January 2019 - 09:36 AM


    No there is nothing wrong with that at all it is total personal preference. If there is someone that has an issue with you not doing that then they are the ones with a problem and not worth your time. Your comfort and security as a little should be the first priority of any "Daddy" that you are talking to and if it is not then don't waste our time talking to them.

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    Posted 04 January 2019 - 10:12 AM

    Hi... I was just curious if it is wrong for me to not want to give my kik or snapchat out right away? I have had a few people get upset with me on here already about it, and I was just wondering if I am in the wrong... Thank you for your time!

    hi friend! I don't tend to give out my personal stuff right away either. If people are pushy about it, I see it as a warning sign that they don't really want to know me further but like the idea of me and just want me to play along with them. don't let anybody bully you into doing something you don't want to!

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    #9 B&TDaddyDom



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    Posted 05 January 2019 - 10:40 AM

    Ultimately it's your decision. If people get angry or upset about that. I'd question their validity. Its more so if and when you feel comfortable and if you're happy just to message through messenger on here. They should respect that.
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    #10 MysticSand



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    Posted 06 January 2019 - 01:19 AM

    Not wrong of you in the least!

    From personal experience, I find it interesting when people ask and when I say I don't have either and won't be getting either, that their next logical step is to ghost. Clearly someone who isn't willing to communicate with you on a platform you're comfortable with isn't worth your time and I agree with the above response that it could be them attempting to be shady.

    In all honesty, if we don't click through forum PM's, why the need to add KIK/Snap to the mix for us to also not click through them?

    Don't give out information you're not comfortable giving out and don't feel guilty about it. Your gut instinct usually knows best!
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    #11 Daddy's_good_girl



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    Posted 21 July 2021 - 07:29 PM

    I totally agree with the other posts.
    If some one asks me immediately after text me for the first about any other account info I might have I'll be suspicious about that person intentions.
    Be carefull, trust your instincts and if that person doesn't accept your choice, just move on. For my own experience in other social media sites, any one trying to do that on the 1st contact probably only want some "online fun". Nothing wrong with that but that's not what I think you want. So put your needs in 1st place.

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