-This is all personal opinion-
So over past year iv heard from so many littles that just want to stop being a little all together because they ran into a daddy that just wanted to control them. Ones that were emotionally abusive and physically abusive. Ones that were basically just in it for them selves the way i see it. It makes me sad thinking about all the things that littles have been through so much and found a way to get away from it all. Then find someone that they think will take care for them and be their daddy. They promise so much and provide so little. They think that they can take advantage of someone who has been broken down before and it infuriates me to no end. DDlg is something near and dear to my heart and hearing so many willing to quit because of a few bad apples JUST. UGGGHHHH.
Im sorry that youv been through so much yet still feel like you want to quit. I promise that there is someone out there that is willing to care for your needs. Both little and non little. We arnt all bad. Some are willing to go above and beyond to make sure you are happy. Its not always easy for us but we do try.
Being a daddy you have to understand that most littles have been through trauma. They chose to be a little to escape from the harsh realities of the word and go to a place where they can trust you. Dont break that trust. They are usually more sensitive than you think. They can require constant reassurance and thats something you signed up for. Being a daddy isnt just controlling someone and bending them to your will. Some littles arnt sexual in the slightest and you have to understand that. You have to put forth the effort to see them grow as a person and a little. Some littles require more dominance like giving chores and having rules. Being structured. While some dont want or need that type of thing. You have to be ready for depressive/PTSD/ect episodes. Its not easy being a daddy. Please put more thought behind your actions. Dont be the reason why you take something so pure away from someone who really needs it.