I decided to post here for advice cos I have no idea what to do
me and my mummy/cg/gf have been together for almost 3 years and we live together...but we've been having problems lately with our dynamic; she is very depressed/in a bad place, but so am I recently she struggles with being dom/mummy, and thats okay, but I feel really crap myself atm too and I want to be able to relax in littlespace and interact with positive people to feel better, but she's very negative atm ofc, so it's giving me tons of breakdowns and making my mental state worse...so I worry that we're bad for each other and that we shouldn't be together when we seem to make each other feel bad....but I've been with her for 3 years, I love her very much, we've been through a lot together AND we live together....but should I let that stop me breaking up with her if shes wrong for me and I'm wrong for her?
iI'm not afraid of the idea of us taking time apart, cos I know if we're right for each other we'll get back together, so I'm okay with it, but whenever I mention the idea she has a breakdown and I know she has some suicidal thoughts so I'm really worried something bad will happen....wot should I do any thoughts? ((
she is an amazing partner, she always tries her best and wants to do so much for me, she is not a bad person, that's not what im trying to say, i just think we're two people that shouldn't be together...i like to try and stay positive and little, cos i have quite a few things wrong with me, and life is short, i like to spend it being as happy as i can! but she's quite a negative and cynical person so it ends up making me feel sad and that i can't be little anymore but she doesn't mean to cos she is hone3stly a lovely person to the core, i just fear we're not right for each other, or am i just too sensitve and an overthinker?
I just want to relax in littlespace, and make my partner feel happy and be there for them, but recently I'm finding this very hard and I'm constantly upset abt it
thank u to anyone that heard me out and read this long long post!!! ;_:
Edited by princess_scarlett, 11 January 2019 - 03:52 AM.