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Hi! Im still fairly new to being a Daddy. The girl of my dreams(see story below) turns out to be a little and I want to be the best daddy possible! We are engaged, but I feel like I could be doing a lot better. The only problem we have is that we live 3 hrs away from each other. Soon we plan on moving in together, but its been kind of rough(see story below). I really just need some help and ideas on how I can be the best daddy from a distance! Any input is helpful from all you Littles and daddys alike! Thank you!!

 

 

** My Perfect Little Girl **

So as a teenager I moved around quite a bit, and ended up living in Henderson, Nv and going to high school there. I was a Junior and she was a Freshman. I was in a class called Tech Theatre, where we built sets for plays. For one play we were doing(Urine Town) I was backstage helping with props, when I saw her. She was the most perfect person I had ever seen. We started flirting with each other and honestly just from seeing her I felt as though she was the only person that mattered in this world. We hung out pretty often after that, but I was too shy to tell her anything and she was the same way, I ended up having to move to Utah with my father(was still a minor) and then thats what it took for us to realize that we were both inlove with each other. It was rough having a long distance relationship and at the time it just wasnt going our way, nothing went our way. Literally everything that couldve have gone wrong did. After a long rocky road of passionate love that was seemingly impossible to share with each other, things started to change. Recently, ive moved to the same state as my little one, though its still nearly 3 hours away, I feel so much closer to her. Ive gone and visited her a few times now, even though my finances are pretty unstable for the time being. She introduced me to DD/LG the first time I went out there and at first I was kind of thrown off gaurd, but have since learned to love it!! She is the most amazing person in the world and has taught me so much about how to be a great daddy, but I still mess up sometimes(like saying scary stuff). I almost forgot to mention that we both fell inlove with each other from day 1 but were too afraid to say anything to each other for quite a while afterwards. I love her sooooo much and I want to do everything I can to make her happy! It gets hard sometimes not being able to do 90% of the things that most daddys can do, and I dont want her to be missing out on anything. She deserves the best and Ive read a bunch of these posts on here and ive already fallen inlove with the sense of community on this site. Thanks in advance! :)

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General tips for long distance:

 

Keep in contact every day

Lots of skype dates

Find a game to play online together

Make some rules that give you opportunities to interact

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Hopefully we'll be seeing a post soon that's about how you have gotten along in person. Long distance relationships can work if the right amount of time is put aside for your significant other.  :)

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Spent Littles Day with my princess and we had all kinds of fun like tye dy shirts, tea parties, car dancing, baking cookies, watching movies, and all kinds of other things! It was a 3 hr drive to go and see her but it was worth every second! Thank you for the ideas and support! I love my litte one! She is more than anything I could wish for <3
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Guest MyDaddyMyWorld

I didn't read the story, just the original post.

Just communicate as often as you can. Text, calls, skype, send her greetings cards in the post, write real letters and post them too.

How about both of you opening a tumblr blog and sharing stuff together? Either as two separate blogs where you interact with each other, or one single one where you both have the password etc.

check on her. Ask her what she has eaten today, put a movie on at the same time so you are kind of watching it together, give her a shirt to sleep in.

There are lots of ways to stay connected.

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