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Is daddy just using me for sex ?


Littleseal

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It might just be me. But ever since I talked to my daddy about me feeling sad when he doesn't text me as much as he used to or when he doesn't send me kisses anymore. He has been making an effort to text me more but whenever he does he just wants to have sex. And after we do have sex, I will ask him about his day and what I did for my day, but he just goes offline until maybe a week later and he wants sex again . I feel sad and dirty when he does this to me because I feel like he only wants me for sex and he doesn't seem to love me anymore...does anyone else feel this way ? Or I'm probably just overreacting and maybe annoying him
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I have been in a situation similar to this before and I totally understand feeling uncomfortable, sad and dirty. I don't feel you are overreacting if he is only contacting you for sex and goes away for days at a time out my to come back for more.

My best advice would be to tell him how you feel (if you have not done so already ) if that does not fix it or he blows off your feelings leave him. I know it sucks but it is for the best. No use staying and feeling like crap

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This is not right. I'm so sorry you are being made to feel bad.

I agree that you should discuss things with him again and that if he doesn't improve then you shouldn't allow him to string you along. It's hard but better that always feeling sad and dirty.

A Daddy should not be treating his little this way,nor should a significant other treat their partner like it.

I hope things get better for you!

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Guest Aetherr

the best way to know for sure would be to withhold it from him once or twice, if he leaves or seems agitated at you then you will know for sure but i think you already know you are being used, dont ignore it you are not dirty nor are you over reacting

 

i hope he sees the damage he is doing before long!

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Agree with the above, personally - i'd tell him how you feel and then do as Aetherr has mentioned, be careful though as he might show some attention to your feelings just to get what he wants, so keep that in mind.

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You already told him how you feel and nothing changed. If you're not being fulfilled emotionally and you don’t want a relationship that's soley based on sex it’s time to move on. 

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  • 2 weeks later...

Yep. Unfortunately, he's probably just using you. Don't call him "Daddy". People like that don't deserve such a moniker. Get away as quickly and safely as you can and move on. Do not be wasting any further time on anyone like him. If he literally only texts when he wants something from you (ie: sex), then that's not a healthy relationship - straight up. Relationships are built on foundations of trust and open communication. If he won't even tell you about his day or ask about yours, he's not interested. It's as simple as that. He's using you. Get as far away from him as you can and don't give him a second though. He doesn't deserve it - nor has he earned it.

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I don't see something bad if he is using you. In my point of view, you also have a lot of benefits from this.

How is being sad and feeling dirty a benefit? It's not! I know how it feels to be sad, dirty and being used, its not a good feeling. It's mentally and physically draining. It's not healthy and there is no benefit to feeling that way. A true Daddy would take care of all the needs of his little, not just pop online to have sex and then leave until he wants it again. 

 

To the little who this happening to: I'm so sorry your Daddy is treating you this way. You deserve to feel wanted, cared for and loved. If he continues to just want sex, after talking to him about how your feeling, then you should leave. I don't think your overacting, your not getting what you need and want in the relationship.

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I don't see something bad if he is using you. In my point of view, you also have a lot of benefits from this.

You mean besides the fact that she is obviously emotionally invested in him and wants more out of the relationship then just to be used for sex? I don't see any benefits of her situation at all!

 

I'd tell him straight up what you are feeling and what your expectations are moving forward if he still wants to be with you. Personally I would also have a period of no sexy times because I'd be feeling ick and distrustful of his intentions. Honestly if it was me I would probably just move on. 

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Oh, this super sucks to read, I'm sorry... the best thing you can do is not give him any sex while you sort out what you want to do with yourself, babe. You'll see then that he'll probably try to give you attention for sex, but don't give it to him; you'll probably see his true nature, and it might make it easier for you to decide to break it off (which, just on my gut feeling, seems like the right thing to do). If you need anyone to talk to, I'm here! Please feel better soon, and have a snack if you can! You deserve it.

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