DDLG + D/S + M/S?

[Littlegirlandmiles]

I have been recently finding myself more and more with my sir. He has helped me blossom into something I never thought I could be. So confident and comfortable being myself.

 

I had a question that I wanted to throw out there. I definitely identify as a little. But my daddy asked me a question today after I told him I had been doing some reading. And it made me think.

 

My daddy/sir (I call him both) also calls me Slave. I don’t necessarily call him “Master” but I do feel he is that to me. I realize that everyone’s dynamics are unique to them and different. But I was just curious if there are any littles or daddies out there that have somewhat similar dynamics? I see myself as a little girl, Slave and submissive. Not one or the other. All. I definitely feel more little most of the time. But is there anyone else that is kind of the same?

 

My sir loves to call me Slave and I enjoy when he does. We do a lot of things that masters/slaves would do. But he also takes care of me. We watch animated movies together. I have my stuffie and we both play with him together. He plays with me and tickles me. If we are out, he orders everything for me. It all falls into all of the categories.

 

The question he asked me is what side of the spectrum I saw myself more leaning towards? And between submissive and Slave, I would choose Slave. But if I throw LG in there...I cannot choose. I don’t think I have to choose. I think it’s amazing to be able to have and enjoy both aspects.

 

But I just wondered if anyone else is like me/us?

[Guest Little.Pterodactyl]

I am. And I feel that depending on my mood, "different sides" Of my Daddy are relaxing.

[TwilightSparklez]

My experience, at least being in service to someone so all of what I say may change in an established relationship, is that it is very dependent on my mood. If school is really intense, and there are lots of chores, bills, etc. to take care of then I find I am more in slave role. If I am feeling emotional or I have lots of down time I can easily feel more little and cuddly. I think it's a good idea to find what triggers your headspace and explain that your equally both dependent upon.......

[Guest ~*BabyDoll*~]

This is 100% me!

 

Even though I call my Daddy well.. Daddy heh.. Him and I very open about what I identify as(A little and sub), however, I have a really hard time picking between being a little and a submissive.

 

My little and submissive side are very very similar. Oddly enough, I always go into little space in public. However, my little me isn't bratty, loud or anything like that. I grow shy, timid, quiet and I just grip onto Daddy for dear life. I do go into little space at home, but it's always at stores, but also on dates. I order from the kid menu a lot /).(\

 

My submissive side is that I am quiet and timid. But Daddy knows when I really don't like something, so he approaches me with caution in certain situations. 

 

But what I am trying to say is that I understand, being a little and submissive are both depending on Daddy/sir. I don't know what it is like to be slave as I have not experienced or identified as that whatsoever, but I am glad I am not the only one who had multiple identification in this community!

[LittlePupRune]

So my primary is my dominant and Alpha. We're very much D/s (and S/M). I occasionally call him Daddy, but that is not our primary dynamic. He's also my handler as I am a pup. I can feel the potential to be Master/slave or maybe even Owner/property later down the road but that'll take a bit more time. There's a term I've run into that I feel describes having multiple different "roles" well: S-type fluid (or could be D-type fluid for those on the left side of the slash). I like using S-type fluid as a way to encompass the many different types of submission or service "roles" I fall into myself.

[Little_Ghoul]

This describes me and my DD too! 

 

That is one of the things I love most about these types of relationships. Your dynamic is your dynamic! You can modify and add to it as much as you and your partner wish.