A little being called Daddy??

[Little.Pet.Kate]

I have come to the conclusion that I really enjoy being called Daddy, even though I am a little and a female. I really don't understand why. I only enjoy polyamorous relationships if I'm being called Daddy by a female or a femboy, but I am mainly monogamous. And I do enjoy being called Mommy but I much prefer Daddy. 

 

Does this make me a switch in some cases? And why do I like Daddy instead of Mommy? Am I trans? I really don't understand. 

[zanderandspike]

 

Does this make me a switch in some cases? And why do I like Daddy instead of Mommy? Am I trans? I really don't understand. 

 

I mean, you don't have to be trans to prefer being called one tital over the other, a lot of female doms use sir/daddy/master I don't think that really makes or breaks anything. Being trans is more of feeling like you are a boy/gilr/nonbinary entity/etc but not having a boy/girl/nonbinary body. Idk, that the best way I can explain it rn, sorry, but if you are feeling more like a 'boy/man' and you would prefer people use he/him when describing you then that's fine too(if you have more trans questions feel free to friend me and we can talk, lol)

 

as for the switch thing being called daddy doesn't make you a daddy, but if you like helping a little do little tings(or just leading a little in general) then maybe you are a switch, it's also ok 100% ok to experiment with it(and again if you have more personal questions feel free to ask)

 

~a trans switch

[Guest Ttul]

I go by Papi Chulo. I am a dominant female little.

 

You are only a switch if you want to be a switch

And only you can figure out if you are trans. I suggest digging deep and trying to figure it out. But many females like to be called daddy and are still female.

 

Best wishes.

[ForeverFluffy]

Personally, no one can answer your question of whether or not you're trans but you. As a non-binary person, I can say that when I started feeling uncomfortable with my body because it was much too feminine and it didn't match my headspace, I really began questioning my gender identity. Before, I just described myself as a tomboy. Not all NB and trans people feel gender dysphoria, though. I think that if you feel like a woman but you like expressing yourself as androgynous or masculine, then it just means that you like expressing yourself that way. All in all, it takes a lot of reflection and questioning to really answer your question.

But call yourself whatever you like, sweetie. Personally, I like being called both typically male and female nicknames.

Edited April 21, 2019 by ForeverFluffy

[Little.Pet.Kate]

Personally, no one can answer your question of whether or not you're trans but you. As a non-binary person, I can say that when I started feeling uncomfortable with my body because it was much too feminine and it didn't match my headspace, I really began questioning my gender identity. Before, I just described myself as a tomboy. Not all NB and trans people feel gender dysphoria, though. I think that if you feel like a woman but you like expressing yourself as androgynous or masculine, then it just means that you like expressing yourself that way. All in all, it takes a lot of reflection and questioning to really answer your question.

But call yourself whatever you like, sweetie. Personally, I like being called both typically male and female nicknames.

 

Thank you! This really explains a lot about me. I always called myself a tomboy and I still do. I understand a little better now. 

[Little.Pet.Kate]

Thank all of you for the good info and help. It really makes me think 

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i also want to point out that as someone who doesn't identify with a little at all, 

i tend to identify with more traditionally masculine aspects of being small when i do feel "little"

even though i identify as a female.

 

so, tldr; 

you can identify as whatever you feel like you need to to define you,

but you also don't need to identify as anything at all except 

"kate".

you know?