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Who asked whom?


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Who asked whom?  

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  1. 1. Who asked to take the next step?

    • Little asked Caregiver
      8
    • Caregiver asked Little
      3
    • Don’t remember
      0
    • Other
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Just out of curiosity wondering how many:

• Littles asked their Caregiver

• Caregivers asked their Little

To take the relationship to the next level of being boyfriend/girlfriend or caregiver/little.

 

Feel free to share your story on how you asked your CG/L to be with you and/or your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse :)

 

I don’t want to see “the decision was mutual” unless your story is you both said, “BE MINE?!” at the exact same time! Someone brought up the conversation which led to you being together!

 

Hehe just being nosy x3

 

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If you’ve been in more than one more than one relationship, feel free to just answer with your last one, current one, or what you typically tend to do. It’s all up to you what you’d like to share :)

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Guest LittleSnowiii

Just out of curiosity wondering how many:

• Littles asked their Caregiver

• Caregivers asked their Little

To take the relationship to the next level of being boyfriend/girlfriend or caregiver/little.

 

Feel free to share your story on how you asked your CG/L to be with you and/or your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse :)

 

I don’t want to see “the decision was mutual” unless your story is you both said, “BE MINE?!” at the exact same time! Someone brought up the conversation which led to you being together!

 

Hehe just being nosy x3

 

Edit:

If you’ve been in more than one more than one relationship, feel free to just answer with your last one, current one, or what you typically tend to do. It’s all up to you what you’d like to share :)

 

 

I was already dating my daddy actually. But then I told him about ddlg and gave him the opportunity to search about it and he loved it.

So basically he became my daddy after being my boyfriend x)

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My Daddy and I were dating and he noticed I always seemed happier and calmer when he would set boundaries or be more dominant in the bedroom. This led us to talking about D/s in the bedroom which over time turned into a discussion of D/s outside the bedroom.

 

After a few months of exploring things my Wife, Daddy and i talked about a collar, what it meant to each of us, what it meant together, the commitment behind it, whether it was right for the relationship. After deciding yes, my Daddy and I had a private and very intimate collaring ceremony.

 

Now, why is this important to our DDlg relationship, well during our exploration of D/s I had introduced him to diaper play and he really enjoyed what it brought to our relationship. He enjoys using them on me to reinforce his dominance and my submission. He always preferred I call him Daddy versus Dom or Master it anything else so we naturally evolved into the dynamic.

 

We never really had a "will you be my Daddy" or "will you be my babygirl" conversation, it was an evolution of our love, brought on by the D/s commitment in our relationship. I was calling him Daddy and he was calling me babygirl/princess well before we ever officially viewed our relationship as a Ddlg one.

 

Little kaiya

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almost 2 years ago, i asked my daddy if he'd be interested in taking on a sort of caregiver role to me and taking care of me. he was super excited and said yes!!! he was actually my daddy before we started officially dating oddly enough.. but we started dating about 3-4 months after that.

 

but he is a wonderful daddy an i love him so much!!! i could not ask for anyone better as my daddy.

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