Why does my daddy not love me and why does he hate me
Posted 21 May 2019 - 12:12 AM
Posted 21 May 2019 - 12:32 AM
I'm afraid that no one will be able to answer for him and tell you what he's thinking. Talk to him about how he's making you feel and try to figure out what's going on with him. If he's ended your relationship or ghosted you, I'm very sorry but these things can happen in the online dating scene. People don't usually go from loving to hating in a single moment with the flip of a switch, so something's changed to get him to the point where whatever happened was able to happen. Hopefully there will be a reasonable answer but even if there isn't, don't beat yourself up about it. We all have to go through bad experiences before we find the right person. That's just how life works! You're going to be alright.
Posted 21 May 2019 - 04:31 AM
I don’t understand I though I was good
You really haven't provided any information that would let anyone offer any thoughts that could be useful. If you truly want advice you need to provide some detail or all you will get are generic statements that wont mean very much.
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Posted 21 May 2019 - 07:14 AM
Ask him. He'll probably know more than we do about this issue.
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Posted 21 May 2019 - 08:26 PM
Posted 21 May 2019 - 08:38 PM
Edited by Daddy-Tom, 21 May 2019 - 08:39 PM.
Posted 21 May 2019 - 09:22 PM
There are so many red flags and concerning statements in this short paragraph I dont even know where to start honestly . . .
So we been together 8 months and we live together I’ve know him sence I was 5 and I’m now18 he’s 26 things where good for the first 3 months but the he slowly stopped doing any “daddy related stuff” he also threatens to tell everyone one and show screen shots if I piss him off ik I can be hard to handle sometimes but I try my best and it’s gotten to the point where u won’t show any affection unless he’s drunk or wants to “special play”
Threatening to out you to people and show screenshots is blackmail, a serious breach of trust, abusive, immature and irresponsible . . . And that's just for starters.
Not showing affection unless he's drunk honestly sounds like an alcohol abuse problem. And only showing affection if he wants "special play" just sounds like he's using you.
Now, I dont know you or your partner and we're only getting one side of the story so understand what I write is based on what you've shared.
This is not a Daddy/little issue. What you've described is a relationship that is unhealthy, harmful and just in general toxic. I'm a huge advocate of communication but what you've described honestly sounds like it's way past the point of saving. Your partner sounds manipulative and uncaring at best and emotionally abusive as a more accurate description.
My question to you is why would you want to remain with this person? How do they improve your life or help you grow, feel loved . . . Heck, in what way are they a positive element of your life??
Let me reiterate, this is not a question of love or hate. The partner you describe dont seem interested in anything other than abusing you . . . I want to say sorry for being so blunt but I'm not sorry.
Get out. Get out now.
Edited by Little kaiya, 21 May 2019 - 09:23 PM.
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Posted 22 May 2019 - 07:38 AM
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Posted 05 June 2019 - 05:46 AM
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Posted 05 June 2019 - 02:31 PM
get out. run away as fast as you can.
that is not a daddy at all. he is an abuser and he's using you.
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Posted 05 June 2019 - 03:23 PM
Yeah, I concur with everyone else here. Your relationship doesn't sound healthy at all. It will probably get worse the longer you try to stay in it.
I wouldn't say your "daddy" hates you, but he certainly doesn't love you. He doesn't sound like he loves himself either. Leaving him is best for both you and him. You don't want to continue this and have it turn into full blown domestic violence.
Please be safe.
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Little age: 5-7
Children don't worry what they look like to others. They are 100% themselves. When we get older, we learn to fit in society by submerging those parts of ourselves that our culture looks down on. We don't want to be rejected by our parents. We don't want to be rejected by our peers. Growing up may include re-embracing ourselves even if we must stand alone.
Thank you for being here as I re-embrace the Self I'm meant to be.
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Posted 09 June 2019 - 11:10 PM
Posted 09 June 2019 - 11:15 PM
Update: I stayed it didn’t get better he crashed his car on purpose he’s okay but blames it on me I’m getting kicked outta my home because of it and I’ll have no place to call home for awhile I’m so scared
So he crashes his car on purpose, and it's *your* fault? Hell no. Hun, leave him. He is a horrible person, and this will not get better.
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Posted 09 June 2019 - 11:16 PM
Posted 09 June 2019 - 11:22 PM
He told everyone he was trying to kill himself. So the blame is on me and I have to go to ny now where I don’t have a home
That's in no way your fault. You are not responsible for his actions. All of that is on him, so please don't feel or make yourself believe it's your fault. I hope that you find a housing situation soon. Can your family take you back in?
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