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Has anyone used conventional dating apps/sites to try and find their Ddlg other half. Either subtly or just blatant personal ad?.

 

Stories, feedback etc.. Would be great

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I wouldn't use bumble or tinder.. i mean it did not work out for me! Actually finding anyone on normal datings sites into cgl did not work for me!

 

Reddit or here has been a good place to find someone!

 

I mean everyone has different experiances but that was mine!

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I had a profile once but didn't use my pics. It was a Ddlg one.

 

I spoke to a girl who wanted it, but she had been seeing a married man. I don't really have time for that kind of thing. I understand the appeal but still I don't like it..

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I met my second husband on RSVP and we were together 16 years till he died. When I wanted to start dating again I went on Plenty of Fish and later Tinder. Both as good/bad as the people on them.

I recently tried Bumble and Zoosk but they seem like a sort with what they want you to pay for. I don't expect everything free but they're not very up front about it.

I've met 1 daddy here and 2 through Fetlife.

Honestly I don't know where I'll find my forever daddy.

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I feel like I’ve tried everything at times.

 

Reddit, Fetlife, POF, Tinder, Whiplr, Hinge, Kinkoo, DDLGFriends, DateCGL... and of course here. I’ve browsed through IG, Kik groups, and Tumblr but didn’t do anything other than kind of window shop there.

 

On vanilla apps I don’t outwardly day I’m looking for a Daddy Dom as doing so has gotten so many bad messages (bad as in people who have no clue). Instead I say “looking for SSC individuals and D-Types.” And if they know what it means, they know what it means.

 

At some point, it makes me feel like, maybe it’s not them, maybe it’s me and my high standards. However I’ve never met such rude and vulgar people than on these apps. I’ve tried settling a few times and those are some of my most regretful dates.

 

First line from a Tinder match today: “My dick murdered the last pussy and I need a new place to hide it”

First message from a random person on Kinkoo today: “You’re new obedient little girl now understand!!! UNDERSTAND”

Don’t get me started on Fet messages.

9/10 times people ask about sex before my name. Beware of “tourists” in kink.

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From a guys perspective. Think I'd rather have girls send rude messages than nothing at all.

 

Think the algorithm on all of them is to set you up to fail to want to pay for the extra features.

 

And I feel ya, feeling like I've tried everything too.

Same old story everywhere. Soon as you talk to someone that feels like it could go somewhere. They dissappear without warning.

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I go on multiple dating apps like Badoo saying that I’m a little & looking for a daddy, but I’d much rather interact with people on a kink-specific app/website because I know they’d actually be into the lifestyle instead of just meeting a bunch of vanilla sex-crazed pigs that claim they’ll be your daddy yet haven’t the slightest clue if what that even means.

(side note: KinkD is an awesome app to find local people into DDLG or other types of kink)

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I've tried POF in the past. I stated in my profile that I'm a little looking for a DD. Also put my preference for being a princess and loving pink. Guys glossed over that total paragraph and messaged any way . When I asked if they knew what it meant they said no. They wanted to keep talking, but weren't interested in knowing more about ddlg. Edited by Ebony Fruit Bat
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I've used many of these websites in the past: badoo, POF, Lovoo, Adoptauntio (Adopt-a-dude I think there is no English version of this one), Tinder... I only looked for girls, but it was a failure. I had the feeling that people there were extremely superficial, plus I'm so weird that I couldn't connect with anybody even if tried for years. Although I wasn't looking for a DDLG relationship since I didn't know about it. But now, I would rather spend the rest of my life alone than getting into those websites again, haha, and I bet I wouldn't find a little there. I prefer to be patient and explore specific websites/apps.  

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I personally loved OK Cupid. It was my fave for finding a meaningful relationship. I havent used it in a couple of years, but it was the best with actualy humanizing people and making it about comparability. <3
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