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    #1 Guest_BestDayEver_*

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    Posted 01 July 2019 - 06:35 PM

    So, I've seen little's that are in a relationship together but not very common.

     

    The question is, is it truly possible? And is it a type of relationship that's easy to maintain and to keep each other happy like Caregiver/Little? Or is it completely different in every way?

     

    What's different and what's maybe needed, required, and any advice anyone can give me?

     

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    Edited by FireyGrowler, 04 July 2019 - 12:54 PM.


    #2 countlieberkuhn

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    Posted 01 July 2019 - 06:48 PM

    I don't see why not!  I think this dynamic would work as long as both parties were looking for someone else they can regress with, and share the world with childlike wonder.  People looking for strict rules and boundaries would probably not find what they're looking for though.



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    Posted 01 July 2019 - 08:40 PM

    This is very possible, and I'm sure there are many happy little to little relationships. It all just depends on what both parties want. This kind of relationship would probably only work for littles that age regress but are not interested in the power exchange of typical xDLx couples. The ease of which a relationship like this is maintained again would depend on the people involved. It's always about communication no matter what type of relationship two (or more) people are in. To start, you would just need to assess what you are looking for in a relationship and then find like minded people and try building connections. 


    Edited by Babykiwi, 01 July 2019 - 08:40 PM.


    #4 Little kaiya

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    Posted 01 July 2019 - 09:06 PM

    Is it possible, sure, is it what littles are looking for, probably not. Relationships are wonderful in that they should be tailored to the people that are in them.

    Now, does a little/little relationship have challenges that aren't in a DDlg relationship, yep. Both parties would have to really talk and respect that the other isn't a Caregiver. Personally I think that could be very challenging, especially after a hard day, during stressful situations, etc. As a result of challenging or emotional times when littles typically want their Caregiver I think it would honestly be very, very difficult to maintain in the long run. I think one would end up almost forced into a Caregiver or older sibling role which could be ok for a switch but in my opinion unfair to a little.

    Would I personally ever consider it, nope, I'm a little and when I'm little I want my Daddy there to take care of me. I don't want another little who needs those same caregiving moments that I do. Plus, showing my little side is a very vulnerable thing for me which occurs when I'm with my Daddy. I honestly think if I was with another little that side of me wouldn't come out which wouldn't be healthy.

    So, if both littles were very honest, truly weren't looking for a Caregiver in the other person and communicated it is possible; however, I think it's not what most littles really want deep down, so even if they say they do I'm not 100% convinced it would be true. That said, it wouldn't be me in that type of relationship so my opinion isn't really that important now is it 😉

    Just my thoughts and two cents.

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    Edited by Little kaiya, 01 July 2019 - 09:09 PM.

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    #5 LittleTeacup

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    Posted 01 July 2019 - 11:24 PM

    I think it's possible. Not all littles need or even want a caregiver. If two littles just want to be little together and do cute little things, sure it would work. It could run into trouble if somebody wants rules and punishments, but with a lot of communication, even that might be able to work. I'd imagine the punishments would have to be determined ahead of time, and then each little would just keep an eye on the other one and say "hey you ate all the dessert! Our punishment list says you have to write lines now!" or something... :) It definitely wouldn't work with everyone. But if two littles love being able to color and watch cartoons together and then kiss too, they should go for it.

     

    Another possibility is both littles sharing a platonic caregiver.


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    Children don't worry what they look like to others. They are 100% themselves. When we get older, we learn to fit in society by submerging those parts of ourselves that our culture looks down on. We don't want to be rejected by our parents. We don't want to be rejected by our peers. Growing up may include re-embracing ourselves even if we must stand alone.

     

    Thank you for being here as I re-embrace the Self I'm meant to be.

     

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    Posted 02 July 2019 - 12:13 PM

    YES its possible, the people above are correct with saying that both parties have to have very fluid communication with their needs, and they need to be on the same page that NETHER is a CG and will not give affection the same way as one - but that does not mean littles can't be affectionate, attentive, and supportive of one another - it's just very important that nether one is forced into a CG role because its very draining and puts allot of stress on someone who can't/doesn't want to have it.

     

    I am currently in a relationship of sorts with another little. We have a very special bond that I feel is well above a friendship and truly is one of love - thou it remains platonic. (we are like soul sisters!) While we are both very happy with each others company, we do pursue other partners to fill that CG/dom role, both of us want our own Daddy/Mommy/Dom but something that's VERY important to us is for our partners to get along with each other. We are kind of like a package deal, because I couldn't imagine not having this person as an active part of my life and anyone who isn't okay with that isn't right for me.

     

    Even if our relationship isn't exclusive to each other, and is platonic, it is 100% valid and 10000% proof that littles can be in a relationship with each other! I think if someone finds another soul that clicks with them and meets their needs, a relationship forged on a solid foundation with the goal of building each other up and supporting one another to the very best of your abilities, then role and title don't matter. Love is Love, and that is ALWAYS true <3 


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