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    #1 SpaceDoll



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    Posted 10 July 2019 - 04:49 PM

    I'm not jsut gonna hop on someone the second they message me, and thats what some of your littles do. You need to understand your worth, honestly. I'm not trying to knock anyone down or anything like that. I had someone message me, and try and talk to me. I asked them why they were interested in me, and they were like "because you look good." yes thats me in my profile pic, but you shouldn't want me based on how I LOOK. I'm not saying its wrong to want someone attractive. It's not wrong at all because I'd want someone attractive too. But that was his ONLY excuse for trying to get to know me.  If you're gonna try and get to know me, have more of a purpose.


    Me personally, I don't go for caregivers who are new, mainly because I want someone who is experienced. Although there is a lot to learn, finding someone who has good experience is very valuable.


    And honestly, my inbox is FLOODING with caregivers trying to get me. right now, I'm just looking for the right one. I'm NOT saying looks are everything, but I do prefer someone who is somewhat attractive. I want someone who is experienced, I want someone who is grammatically correct. Someone who has read my personal and understand EXACTLY what I want. Last but not least, someone who genuinely cares. That's MY purpose.


    Don't ever in your life settle for something. Get what you want.

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    #2 Little kaiya

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    Posted 10 July 2019 - 05:14 PM

    There is sadly that trend in a lot of sub cultures of people trying to move way too fast, get their rocks off as it were and then move on to the next thing.

    My Daddy and I are very happy together and aren't looking for play partners but we will look at posts, including intros and personal ads, of people who send us friend requests. We are frankly AMAZED at the number of people who copy and paste repluescor who reply and it's obvious they didnt read the ad. The other ones that boggle our minds are the "you sound amazing" replies to ads that provide virtually no detail or the "omg, I need 75 characters" replies.

    People really need to take a minute, figure out what they want, whether they're compatible and actually consider the fact they're talking to a HUMAN BEING, not some inanimate object to fulfill their fantasies.

    You hit the nail on the head, "Don't ever settle in life. Go after what you want". Thst applies to relationships, jobs, homes, vacations, friends, everything. It is worth every ounce of effort. My Daddy and I found each other and were available because we didn't settle.

    Little kaiya
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    #3 Alaskan Daddy

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    Posted 10 July 2019 - 10:11 PM

    I am sure it is very tough for most of the littles here, with so many over whelming requests. I can tell you know that your feelings matter. The other thing I would tell is make each 'daddy' who contacts you earn what ever time and energy you might give them. You are already smart beyond your years and know what you want and will not settle. Stick to those principals and you will find what you are seeking.

    Good luck in your search

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    Posted 10 July 2019 - 11:47 PM

    I find it annoying when people expect me to give them my everything after just one interaction. On here, I keep being called pet names as if they think they're significant/anything to me.
    I may seem harsh but it's irritating.
    I also post videos on p*rnhub and men think I'll want to roleplay as if I'm interested at all.
    I hope things get better for you.

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    Posted 11 July 2019 - 01:33 AM

    I am convinced most ppl just can't be bothered to read anything. About me/personals/everything posted is like a Terms and Conditions post that their eyes glaze over just to find the 'I agree' button, which in this case is the friend request button. Sadly, most ppl simply are not looking for anything worthwhile. They want role-play/sexting with ppl they couldn't care less about then move on to the next, and nude pictures that they could honestly get with 0 effort on Tumblr but they aren't even smart enough to do that. Instant gratification is the crave rn. Just have to be patient and hope to find a gem.
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    #6 Daddy-Tom


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    Posted 11 July 2019 - 12:35 PM

    Did you expect anything different? Lol women deal with this everywhere and this site is no different in that regard. Obviously I'm not saying it's good but it is what it is. Sounds like you might need a break but I'm going to be honest with you, this is how it's going to be. You're very cute and you're going to get swarmed when you put yourself out there. I'm sure most if not all other women on this site have a similar experience. Sorry if you thought this site would be different but people are pretty much the same everywhere

    Edited by Daddy-Tom, 11 July 2019 - 12:36 PM.

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