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Just A Little Help?


littlepeachykitten
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I'm not exactly where to put this, but I have been meaning to post something about this. 

 

So, when I met my boyfriend, he wasn't huge into being called 'daddy' or ddlg. But after a few months, he is. It really didn't bother me that he wasn't into it. I wanted us to be on the same page, and it wasn't a big deal for me. I don't want it to make it sound like I was changing for him. This is my first boyfriend and I never really explored it before that.

 

Well, a few months ago, he started getting into it. I was obviously surprised, but definitely happy. He calls himself 'daddy', but I need a little help. 

 

I'm not sure if there is a good way to do it, but I just can't get myself to say it back to him. I said it one night over text, but I felt all blushy. I do want to call him 'daddy', but I'm just having a little struggle. 

 

Any suggestions that will help?

 

Thank you!!

 

 

EDIT: So...I called him daddy tonight. It felt great. I also want to put in this little disclaimer that it was during sex. It just came out and it felt great. 

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I had some trouble too, basically just correct yourself when you say something different. It'll probably feel a little weird at first and you may trip up a bunch but soon enough it'll become second nature and it's what you'll automatically call him. Hope this helps :)
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I love this so much thank you for being so open and honest. I think if you follow the steps that Daddys little Baby_Bear is suggesting, you and your boyfriend will have a great time further exploring this dynamic to your relationship together! 

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You will get used to it, for sure.

I used to practice saying it aloud to myself when I was home alone. Lol n.n

I didn’t like the way it sounded in the beginning. But I got used to saying it eventually.

It wasn’t something I’d ever called anybody before, it felt cringy.

Now it feels more normal than his birth name. <.<

If you decide saying “Daddy” doesn’t feel comfortable to you, there’s a lot of posts floating around with alternative names or titles people refer to their CGs by. ^-^

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Hiya!

 

I had the same problem when I started dating my Daddy. I told him it was a struggle for me, so he made me call him Daddy as often as I could. I eventually got over it, and now I just mainly call him Daddy (unless we are out in public of course). Anyways, it might help to tell him so he can correct you so you can get over your shyness.

 

Hope this helps!
 

 

 

Junebug xxx

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