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    #1 little1grl

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    Posted 12 September 2019 - 08:31 AM

    So I'm wondering if there is a special term for a 24/7 lifestyle DD/lg relationship. With control of things like bedtimes, and if the little can have sweets, and etc. Something close to a TPE (and maybe including it) but not necessarily? But the point is, it would go beyond "sessions".

    Or do you just call that a DD/lg relationship that is also a Master/slave relationship?



    #2 Little kaiya

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    Posted 12 September 2019 - 08:47 AM

    Well, that's the kind of relationship I have with my Daddy and we just call it our relationship or a DDlg relationship. Although we have this dynamic 24/7 it doesn't mean I'm in littlespace 24/7. Yes, he has rules for my bedtime, sweets and others things 24/7 but we still have adult time together. That said, I'm also collared so perhaps that influences the nature of how we Express our relationship as well.

    I'm not sure what the benefit of a specific word for it, other than those that already exist, would be.

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    Edited by Little kaiya, 12 September 2019 - 01:34 PM.

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    #3 little1grl

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    Posted 12 September 2019 - 09:14 AM

    Well the reason I am asking is because I met someone who is a Daddy Dom, but he doesn't seem to be into 24/7 stuff? I thought the difference between an ageplayer and a DD/lg is that the later was more lifestyle and more 24/7....while ageplay is just sessions... but was I wrong in that?



    #4 DaddyDom3238

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    Posted 12 September 2019 - 09:15 AM

    Hi,

    I wouldn't get to wrapped up in terms or "labels" as it is your relationship and you should just be in the dynamic that you choose and are happy with. Often labels get int he way of relationships, if you are happy and fulfilled emotionally, physically, and spiritually do as you do! 



    #5 Little kaiya

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    Posted 12 September 2019 - 10:23 AM

    Well the reason I am asking is because I met someone who is a Daddy Dom, but he doesn't seem to be into 24/7 stuff? I thought the difference between an ageplayer and a DD/lg is that the later was more lifestyle and more 24/7....while ageplay is just sessions... but was I wrong in that?


    There are a ton, I would even say the majority of Daddy Doms, who arent into 24/7 Daddy/little activities. Also, just because a Ddlg relationship isnt 24/7 also doesn't make it any less a DDlg relationship.

    Honestly, dont go so caught up in labels, define your relationship in terms of you and your partner or partners.

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    Posted 12 September 2019 - 01:23 PM

    I'm still in a DDlg relationship but it's not 24/7 like he's my boyfriend and my Dom it's hard to be in a dynamic 24/7

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    Posted 12 September 2019 - 02:04 PM

    Well I don’t mean be in little space 24/7. But I mean, that I’d like there to be some rules that go beyond just play time and session time. For example, bedtimes, or permission to eat sweets. So basically power exchange that is beyond just sessions.

    Is that really so rare in a Daddy Dom?

    #8 Little kaiya

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    Posted 12 September 2019 - 04:03 PM

    I encourage you to stop looking at what is "common" or "rare" in a Daddy Dom as it may not really be helpful. Trying thinking more about what you want and don't want then focus on finding someone compatible with those things you want and don't.

    If the person you're talking to isn't interested in having rules outside of the bedroom and you want rules throughout the day and evening that may suggest an incompatibility.

    A lot of littles seem to jump into a relationship with the first person they meet versus waiting to find the right person.

    That said, there are LOTS of Daddies who enjoy rules outside of just a play session. For example my Daddy has rules for me about taking medicine, exercising, water intake, bedtime, underwear choice (diapers some days and cute panties others), making the bed and more. If that's what you want then stay firm and find someone who feels the same way.

    Little kaiya

    Edited by Little kaiya, 12 September 2019 - 04:05 PM.

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    Posted 12 September 2019 - 05:53 PM

    I think I know what you mean about age players and such. By sessions are you referring to bedroom only kink? Knowing terms does helps for reference when speaking to others, especially in the beginning of learning. It is helpful as a starting point for when a person is trying to describe what they like and either party is lost for words/understanding. They are useful, but shouldn't be used to pigeon hole a person's complete character or desires.

    As for what you describe in a relationships, I think that is up to the couple. There is no specific word that I know of. Some lean more heavily towards their most dominant desires and may call it TPE, DDlg, Master slave or Dominate and sub. Any variation really. As mentioned above getting to know this person is the best way to go about it. It might take you far too long to pick apart the distinction and might even offend him in your assumption. You can ask him if he knows any terms to describe himself and go from there.




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