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New Mommy, kinda discouraged


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I don't understand why personals don't work well, at least for me. I keep looking on my personal ad to see what I might've said wrong. I'm relatively new and I'd like to know what I can do to make myself seem more appealibg to Littles.

 

I'm also pretty new to the DD/LG life style, and I find myself in a weird place due to my being Genderfluid, I can see how than can confuse Littles. (I do have more male days than female days but yeah..)

 

I'm not new to being a Dom/Mistress, but I think my assertive personality has mellowed out...

 

Any advice on anything??

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I don't understand why personals don't work well, at least for me. I keep looking on my personal ad to see what I might've said wrong.

 

Many Littles on here are discouraged by Mommies/Daddies that only use our community as a place to obtain a Little.

 

It also takes time for the right people to see your personals topic. I think you should get more involved in the community and give things some time.

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But I'm impatient... I blame the Irish in me  :p

 

I joke around that if you wanted people to reply to your ad right now, you should probably go use Craigslist. Faster, more effective, you'll have "littles" lining up before the night is out. Next fastest might be Fet, but Fet is more "bottom" heavy (bottoms get more replies than tops). This forum, as opposed to these other two, is not a dating site based forum. So it's a combination of people not actively seeking out relationships and the fact that as everyone has said that you need to be active in the community to be known and get more appealing to people here. I don't know anything about you apart from the fact that I told you this information last night and now there's a thread about it. 

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