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Help, my little is angry at me? or not sure.


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Hi, this is my first post on here but I've read quite a bit, but now I need help.

 

Everything was fine untill she said she was crying, when I asked what was wrong a couple of times and that I'll be here for her she told me to leave her alone. I told her I'd give her a massage and asked her to talk to me but I got back "please dont touch me". I dont know what to do. I feel like I shouldnt just leave her alone, it feels like the wrong thing to do. A few moments before this happened she told me her stomach was hurting and she might be on her period. What do I do!?! Help.

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speaking from a little who's done the same thing, you should just give her some space let her calm down, just check up on her time to time, bring her a snack or something, I know it'll be hard because you felt like you did something but I don't think you did, especially if it's around that time, she's probably just touchy and having mood swings!!! Give her a couple days and if she's still like that I think maybe you two need to talk. 

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Alright, thanks for the help! I do have to say that right now we only chat through kik. So I can't actually bring her anything, but I'll do my best. Thank you!

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I haven't known her for a very long time, tbh so I have never experienced this. I don't think there was anything that could've happened to cause it. I guess she just needs some time to calm down, I'll check up on her tonight and see if it's a little better. I think she just needs the space, you're right! I hope she'll talk to me and explain when she feels better.

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My little gets that way sometimes. There are some occasions (like today) where she needed space and didn't even realize it. Just give her some space, check up on her periodically (not every 3 to 5 minutes, trust me), and check on her in the morning. :)

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Very unlikely its anything you did. Leaver her be for a day, or even just a couple of hours. Once she calms down, ask her how you could help if it happens again.

This isn't a dd/lg thing, as this has only happened in previous, vanilla relationships. If I have been a grump, guys usually run away to "let her calm down" to me thats the worst thing you can do. Just take this one example as a learning curve.

Ask her if she honestly wants you to back off, or is she expecting you to sense she really needs you just to try harder to break through, prove you care enough to be persistent.

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