Advice for a little with an older persona?

[porcelainpoppy]

Hey hey

 

So I'm a little, but I like acting around 12-15, not so much anything below that if that even makes sense. Most of the stuff I see on the interwebz focuses on things like colouring, playing with stuffed animals, etc which is all good fun but doesn't really vibe with me most times. This makes me feel kinda like I don't belong in this community, but I still love being cared for by my SO more like a parent cares for a kid/calling him papa/acting childish in other ways. 

 

My question is how can I make myself more of a little space and incorporate my SO, without regressing too much? Or am I just screwed (⌣̩̩́_⌣̩̩̀)

[Guest Kitten1999]

I, personally, feel this persona deeply. I am in the same Little age group, and I, personally, still think it counts as a Little. If you feel Little, then you are. I'm not particularly into age regression either and don't really have a Littlespace. Whatever puts you into your Little age, no matter how old or young, go for it. Whatever you do, don't try to force Littlespace. I hope this helps!

 

Sara

[porcelainpoppy]

I, personally, feel this persona deeply. I am in the same Little age group, and I, personally, still think it counts as a Little. If you feel Little, then you are. I'm not particularly into age regression either and don't really have a Littlespace. Whatever puts you into your Little age, no matter how old or young, go for it. Whatever you do, don't try to force Littlespace. I hope this helps!

 

Sara

 

It does, thank you!!!

[LittleTeacup]

You're a special kind of little called a middle! Middles feel like preteens/teens instead of tiny children, and their interests vary accordingly. Some middles on this site say they like watching shows like Hannah Montana or High School Musical rather than cartoons. They might want to read Teen Vogue. Middles are littles in a different age group, just as there are baby littles, toddler littles, and child littles. Nothing is wrong with you!

[hurtnolivingthing]

Hey hey

 

So I'm a little, but I like acting around 12-15, not so much anything below that if that even makes sense. Most of the stuff I see on the interwebz focuses on things like colouring, playing with stuffed animals, etc which is all good fun but doesn't really vibe with me most times. This makes me feel kinda like I don't belong in this community, but I still love being cared for by my SO more like a parent cares for a kid/calling him papa/acting childish in other ways. 

 

My question is how can I make myself more of a little space and incorporate my SO, without regressing too much? Or am I just screwed (⌣̩̩́_⌣̩̩̀)

 

 

 

Hi porcelainpoppy

 

It sounds like you are probably a 'Middle' as opposed to a 'Little'.

 

Yes a Middle is a actual 'type' within the ddlg community.

My very first ddlg partner was a middle And my 2nd

 

You are not alone. There are other middles on this forum.

 

Don't force yourself to be anything that's not right for you.

And don't worry about being 'odd'. You are not.

 

Best wishes

[porcelainpoppy]

You're a special kind of little called a middle! Middles feel like preteens/teens instead of tiny children, and their interests vary accordingly. Some middles on this site say they like watching shows like Hannah Montana or High School Musical rather than cartoons. They might want to read Teen Vogue. Middles are littles in a different age group, just as there are baby littles, toddler littles, and child littles. Nothing is wrong with you!

 

I didn't know it had it's own name, thank you! uwu

[hurtnolivingthing]

I, personally, feel this persona deeply. I am in the same Little age group, and I, personally, still think it counts as a Little. If you feel Little, then you are. I'm not particularly into age regression either and don't really have a Littlespace. Whatever puts you into your Little age, no matter how old or young, go for it. Whatever you do, don't try to force Littlespace. I hope this helps!

 

Sara

 

I think you're  a 'Middle' too Sara

[Guest ~GlitterUnicorn~]

You would fit in the middle age category - but that's still a type of little! Everyone is different, their ages, likes ectera. 

You regress/play/act (whatever word suits you) younger then your age therefor you're a little.

I'd define the little community all the way from the babies to the littles and the middles. 

[MarshmallowPeep]

You're still a little, even though you feel older. Sometimes this is called a middle, but it's still a little personality none the less. As a middle myself I can assure you that you most certainly and wholeheartedly belong in our community, and you shouldn't worry too much about being "more" little. You should do thinks as you feel like, as they come naturally.

Just remember your persona is valid and you belong among us just as any other little :3

[The_Rector]

Hi, as someone already told you, you are probably a Middle and not a Baby: this does not mean that the DDlg is not your world. You simply have to think about the activities that make you lose your sense of responsibility typical of your real age. To be a Little means to behave freely, enjoying activities and attitudes typical of a lower age than the real one, and in this way experiencing a sense of true freedom and happiness. So dig inside you and looks for what makes you happy, smiling and crazy: singing, dressing in gaudy ways, being bratty ... Listen to your soul and make it confess what makes it happy and that isn't socially accepted: that's yours Little Space 

Edited October 10, 2019 by The_Rector

[porcelainpoppy]

Hi, as someone already told you, you are probably a Middle and not a Baby: this does not mean that the DDlg is not your world. You simply have to think about the activities that make you lose your sense of responsibility typical of your real age. To be a Little means to behave freely, enjoying activities and attitudes typical of a lower age than the real one, and in this way experiencing a sense of true freedom and happiness. So dig inside you and looks for what makes you happy, smiling and crazy: singing, dressing in gaudy ways, being bratty ... Listen to your soul and make it confess what makes it happy and that isn't socially accepted: that's yours Little Space 

 

Thank you! I just need to find out what those ways are haha

[hurtnolivingthing]

This may be helpful to you porcelainpoppy and Kitten1999 and others..

 

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/104-what-is-a-middle/

 

 

I'm sure there are other threads on the Forum, but this one came up immediately on my quick search.

Edited October 10, 2019 by hurtnolivingthing

[Guest KWgirl]

Hey,

 

You definitely sound like a middle, I am one too! Feel free to message me if you want, I like meeting people and I am happy to talk about middle things with you!

 

KW ‍♀

[porcelainpoppy]

This may be helpful to you porcelainpoppy and Kitten1999 and others..

 

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/104-what-is-a-middle/

 

 

I'm sure there are other threads on the Forum, but this one came up immediately on my quick search.

 

 

Thank you! I found it very helpful c:

[hurtnolivingthing]

Thank you! I found it very helpful c:

 

I'm glad to have been of some little help.. 

 

I hope you're beginning to feel more comfortable with yourself..

now you know there are others who feel as you do.

 

If you haven't already done so, you should try to make some 'middle' friends.

 

They can help you a lot with support and advice.

Reach out. Most people on this Forum, are very nice I've found.

 

[EvilDaddyD]

No don't worry at all! A lot of us daddies looove middles, I definitely do (middles hit me up haha) there's a bit different dynamic but yeah littles and middles welcome for sure

[daddymind]

I love this dynamic. There's an element of maturity and a more sophisticated brattitude/childishness but at the same time the "middle" likes to be taken care of as if she were still her daddy's baby. She wants the best of both worlds. I see it like a teen who is not quite fully ready to let go of her childhood because she knows daddy will melt and give her what she wants when she regresses. I'm very much into the bossy/sassy little dynamic so when she can play between the whole "daddy I want attention (pout)" and "fuck you daddy (middle finger)" thing it really gets me fired up. It's also very cute when I baby her and she gets embarrassed (but loves it) because deep down she can't resist that kind of attention but knows she has the older mindset at the same time.

 

Middles who crave the babying element are so much fun!

Edited October 19, 2019 by daddymind