So I am not sure if anyone else had dealt with this or is currently in a situation like this but I wanted to put it up here. When I first started accepting my little side I had a really good friend who at one time before had a little and was very supportive and kind of stepped into a daddy role for me, just a little, while I was figuring things out. It was really helpful for when I was feeling little because he would talk to me each day and just be very nice and made me feel good and not ashamed.
We have had an intimate relationship before but we've always both knew that friends was the better option for us because hes poly and im not and we knew even if we tried anything he would want more. As hard as it my seem I really was more than fine with that. I cared about him and we have a wonderful relationship that would be ruined if we tried something serious.
So enough of the back story. We have been talking a lot more because of all this and when I feel little I get very attached to him, something I do not think I noticed until it was to late, and so today while talking about seeing each other soon he mentioned wanted to get with his other little, the same one from before that I suppose he sees from time to time, and its not uncommon for us to talk about other relations with each other but it just hit in a really weird way for me this time and then later in the conversation he said something else that made it seem like a past time together wasnt good and when I confronted him about it he was just like oh no it was great. I havnt responded because right now I just feel really down I guess.
Sorry its long I'm just so unsure. Has anyone had a daddy friend or a "part-time" daddy in their life?