Need help to understand my relationship with my daddy
Posted 07 November 2019 - 11:20 AM
We have a long distance relationship with different time zones so i feel lonly.
My question is: its all just in my head or he is a "fake" daddy?
Thanks for reading and for anybody Will response (sorry for my bad english)
Posted 07 November 2019 - 11:59 AM
not enough info here to judge, but i would say talk to him.
ask him why he is not getting notification
ask him if its possible to make time to say goodnight
ask him what he wants out of a relationship with you.
Posted 07 November 2019 - 12:06 PM
I would also like to add that just because what ddlg is for him doesn't line up with what ddlg is for you doesn't mean that hes a "fake daddy" it just means that maybe you guys aren't compatible and that's okay.
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Posted 07 November 2019 - 01:47 PM
I would not go as far as calling him a 'fake daddy'. I would remind you that your feelings matter as much as his do. If your daddy is not meeting your needs and desires it might be as simple you and him not being compatible. There is nothing wrong with that. If it was me I would have a conversation with him about what you want and desire from him. Just remember you may never get what you want from him. If you continue not to get what you want from the relationship, there is nothing wrong with walking away. He does not own you. I hope this helps and good luck.
Posted 07 November 2019 - 04:08 PM
I agree that you don't have enough information or have been with him long enough to know whether or not he is a "fake Daddy" or not, however I would caution you the fact that you are questioning this so soon in your relationship with him leads me to believe that your instincts are pulling you in a direction that might be accurate. If anything when a relationship is new and fresh there is naturally a lot of communication back and forth. Trust your instincts and do not settle because you feel as though you need a Daddy.
Your self worth and and self respect come first, only then can you have a fulfilling and meaningful relationship especially in the DDLG/BDSM dynamic. I wish you the best!!
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