Do daddies actual like chubby littles/middles?
Posted 02 December 2019 - 11:01 AM
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Posted 02 December 2019 - 11:09 AM
the short answer to this question is
there is a body type out there for everyone, and while it can be hard not to viewed as the "classic" or "mainstream", you certainly aren't alone.
there are a lot of littles with your body type & insecurity -- & lots of daddies/caregivers who are looking for just that!
try giving this a read:
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Posted 02 December 2019 - 11:27 AM
Posted 02 December 2019 - 11:57 AM
Posted 02 December 2019 - 12:13 PM
I have this same issue... I try to keep my head up and not give up.
Posted 02 December 2019 - 01:16 PM
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Posted 02 December 2019 - 01:16 PM
I have the same issue, but I try to reinforce the idea in my head that beauty is a concept and that each person can have their own personal perspective on what beauty/attractiveness is.
I think that once you've found the right daddy for you, you'll know he's a keeper because he adores everything about you regardless of your appearance.
I wish you the best!~
Posted 02 December 2019 - 01:42 PM
I was overweight (and unhappy with myself) for the first 18 years of my life before I finally lost the weight. I thought it would help me find a partner but it didn't... I didn't find one until I changed the way I thought about myself. It sounds stupid because people's first impression of you (when you meet them in person) is obviously what they see.. but I was still very unhappy with myself, so unhappy that it brought others down just being around me. It's no lie when people say a true smile is the most attractive (and sexy) accessory a woman can wear. Your mindset affects your appearance, a positive one makes you more approachable to others.
I think a daddy (like any other person) would love to be around someone who feels good about themselves cause it uplifts their mood too. I grew up with three older brothers and they all married the woman that was the most happy, even though in the beginning they thought she wasn't their 'type'.
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Posted 02 December 2019 - 07:06 PM
Yes, though it's less common<- That's the honest answer from years of observing the community.
They're still just humans behind their Daddy masks.
So the likelyhood of a Daddy liking a chubby or pudgy Little is about the same as anywhere else.
And that's nobody's fault or problem. People just like what they like. And both you and the Daddies in question have a right to be attracted to whomever they like. ^-^
There's definitely a dumb expectation of Littles being short and petite though, hence why you are not the first person to ask this question. Over a span of 3 years it's probably been asked 50+ times (or similarly worded questions).
Is it unfair? Sure.
Does that mean it's impossible for you to find a loving Daddy? Not at all. It might just take longer.
They're out there. Don't give up or feel let down.
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Posted 03 December 2019 - 12:01 AM
Edited by The RealDaddyCat, 04 December 2019 - 05:57 AM.
Posted 03 December 2019 - 06:17 PM
I personally have no problem with chubby. But I will always support anyone's goals to be a healthy weight. For example, I always tell my girl she is beautiful, because she is. But I would be concerned if she let go to the point where her health was negatively affected. I would also be concerned if she became obsessed with losing weight to the point where she was underweight. So I listen to her intently. What are her goals and what inspires them? If it's skinny instagram models, I'll remind her that they may only have a specific following of guys that like very skinny girls. If she starts not to care about her weight, I'll remind her that her health, happiness and self confidence is number one. But all through this, I remind her that she is beautiful to me and I care about her personal goals. It's basically about avoiding extremes in either direction. I want her to be healthy, happy and confident. That is really the bottom line.
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