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    #1 Guest_MDLB77_*

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    Posted 25 December 2019 - 04:25 AM

    How can I do punishments for my little without being there. I'm new to this so I could use some advice.

    #2 Saint14



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    Posted 25 December 2019 - 12:32 PM

    There are many ways you can do them and different types of punishments.
    For example making your little write out punishment lines and send you pics when theyre done.
    Time outs.
    No stuffies for x amount of time.
    Recording a physical punishment.
    Depends on the level of intimacy your punishments get into there's much one can do.

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    Posted 26 December 2019 - 06:04 AM

    If you do line to make sure you make the number then. Also if your relationship is long distance but still is in person at some point in time keep track of the more severe wrongdoings for personal punishment the next time you see them.

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    Posted 10 January 2020 - 07:31 AM

    i think it depends a lot on the little, and your relationship. I personally prefer to build positive reward systems in place rather than use negative reinforcement. I've found that the right type of positivity can go a long way to encourage good behavior.

    So that's my go to.

    When punishments are needed, I try to do things that are easily verifiable and tailored to the little. Every little is unique, and a punishment for one little could be a reward for another.
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    Posted 12 January 2020 - 11:43 AM

    I do exercise and copy the dictionary (language learning)!
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    Posted 12 January 2020 - 04:40 PM

    Dictionary copying sounds like a good idea. I am keen on making her write lines or no snacks for a week,


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    Posted 13 January 2020 - 11:55 AM

    Dictionary copying sounds like a good idea. I am keen on making her write lines or no snacks for a week,


    dictionary copying sounds like a terrible idea, you mean... 

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    Posted 13 January 2020 - 03:33 PM

    I do exercise and copy the dictionary (language learning)!

    I'm such a nerd because this sounds fun!! I fink a more challenging punishment would writing and be memorising an appropriate quote or stanzas of a poem. These sound fun too!

    I know this is suppose to be punishments, so I'll stop geeking out and give you a good suggestion. Hmmm if your little is very active how about you set a timer and the little has to lay down eyes closed and hold a finger to his/her nose for 4-5 mins straight. No talking, no twitching, no stuffie or pets to distract them. If they fall asleep the punishment must start over again, after a brief break.

    Edited by Batty, 13 January 2020 - 03:34 PM.

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    Posted 18 January 2020 - 11:05 AM

    I do exercise and copy the dictionary (language learning)!

    Oh lord I never thought of doing exercise as a punishment, that's a good one lol.

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