MissPattch Posted January 18, 2020 Report Share Posted January 18, 2020 Im feeling a little off center right now, and have a few things i go to when i need comforting, the major one being sucking my thumb along with holding my favourite item >.< I'm just curious what other littles do when they are in need and not able to get cuddles from a cg? Do you have a favourite item or a habit that makes you feel safe or settled? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LittleMissMissy Posted January 18, 2020 Report Share Posted January 18, 2020 Definitely sucking my paci and a stuffie in my arms. I put on some cartoons and curl up on the couch or bed. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittemptress Posted January 18, 2020 Report Share Posted January 18, 2020 I love to paint. I started using watercolors and paint my Daddy a picture to show him. Doing something for him while I miss him or feel distant from him makes me feel a closeness to him as if I am with him. Yoga and meditation are also really, really helpful for me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kitty~ Posted January 18, 2020 Report Share Posted January 18, 2020 My pacifiers, bottles, def using one of those squishy toys or stuffies and holding them, playing with dolls...and my toys and having a little fun day for myself where I escape the big world! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest strawberry_milk Posted January 18, 2020 Report Share Posted January 18, 2020 i warm up some milk, pour it into my sippy cup and talk to my stuffies about why i'm sad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lavendar Bunni Wubbins Posted January 18, 2020 Report Share Posted January 18, 2020 For me it's usually warm blanket, onesie (or literally regular clothes, but warm ones) and cuddling a stuffie while watching a calming/not so serious show or movie. I do use my paci sometimes too, but it makes my jaw hurt & that kinda ruins the moment if I use it more than a few mins. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Looby-Lou Posted January 18, 2020 Report Share Posted January 18, 2020 Sorry you're not feeling so good. But it is good you have ways to comfort yourself! Sometimes I need to NOT feel little as it's too vulnerable and I stick to adult activities until I feel stronger emotionally. Especially if I'm feeling lonely and wanting a Daddy. Other times I get comfy with a teddy (stuffIe) and my paci and just curl up for a bit. Also generally distracting myself can be helpful - and comforting in a different sort of way - going for a walk, even doing housework, getting errands done etc. Only you know if you're better off being alone or with friends, being quiet or watching tv ... whatever it is that works for you, do it! Hope you feel better tomorrow! Looby 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissPattch Posted January 18, 2020 Author Report Share Posted January 18, 2020 Thanks for all the replies I like the idea of warm milk, i think i might borrow that one ^^ A lot of you have stuffies to cuddle, im not a huge stuffie lover, but i do have a pillowcase that i fiddle with, and that helps me sleep / calm down / relax. @Looby-Lou, yeah i know what you mean about being vulnerable, sometimes i find it hard to get over my feelings enough to be able to "adult", and i get stuck >.< On those days, i find it difficult to reach out and ask for help, another reason i like having this space to come to <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jelloprincess Posted January 19, 2020 Report Share Posted January 19, 2020 I usually cocoon myself up in a big fuzzy blanket and listen to a DDlg-themed ASMR. My favorite ASMRtist is Pudding ASMR, but there are others out there. That really helps me when I'm little and feeling lonely, when I'm having bad anxiety, or when I'm having trouble falling asleep. It might help you, too! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ebony Fruit Bat Posted January 19, 2020 Report Share Posted January 19, 2020 If I get lonely for a Daddy I usually turn on my YouTube watch later list. I always have like 400-500 videos in there. It will have some little videos and some adult stuff mixed together. I let play through. My better option is I'm a day dreamer. I love getting lost in my mind (for the most part), so I'll imagine adventures, attend little party. Experiencing daily life as a little is much more fun, so I'll imagine that. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ♥️ Hayden Babygirl♥️ Posted February 7, 2020 Report Share Posted February 7, 2020 I like cuddling with a stuffie, drinking warm milk, and watching a movie! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubbles_and_Feathers Posted February 8, 2020 Report Share Posted February 8, 2020 I like to sing to my stuffies. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest QueenJellybean Posted February 9, 2020 Report Share Posted February 9, 2020 this should be a helpful place to look! https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11765-self-care-master-post/ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Feisty_cute_angel Posted February 9, 2020 Report Share Posted February 9, 2020 I hug one of my stuffed animals or hug a friend or my mom or i stay quiet most the time and keep to myself 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissPattch Posted February 9, 2020 Author Report Share Posted February 9, 2020 this should be a helpful place to look! https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11765-self-care-master-post/ Thank you!! Its full of awesome ideas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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