BabyGirlChi Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 Um, when a Daddy friend requests am I supposed to message first? I keep getting request, I check their profile, if I like them I friend but then they dont say Hi. Am I doing something wrong? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emillia Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 No, this happens to me all the time. If you really want to get in contact, just saying a simple hi seems to do the trick. It's ok to start the conversation even if you're little. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Looby-Lou Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 Am I doing something wrong? You're NOT doing anything wrong. It's kind of sad you even have to ask. IMO a sincere DD would be a) happy that you accepted his friend request, and b ) polite & confident enough to message you to say thank you and introduce himself. Sadly what you've described happens all the time. And it's not just the DD's. I'm sure that littles do it too - just randomly send out FR and then never follow up on it. Some people feel good if they have lots of "friends". Some people like something about you and send the FR to show this, but they don't want to chat. Other people might FR you so that they can message you at some point in the future (I never understand this, why not just wait until that time in the future comes?!) Don't lose heart. Send a message if you want to, and if you want to wait for them to initiate contact that's ok too. Also, if you accept a FR and then change your mind for any reason, you can cancel it. And you're not rude if you don't accept FR. Good luck! Looby 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playroompunk Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 Naaaaah. Some people try to "collect friends" who they never actually speak to so they look popular on here, other people are social disasters, and other people are incredibly shy and will wait approximately 700 years for the other person to say hi first. IMO the one sending the friend request should at least follow up on it somehow by saying a quick hello, but this is the internet and we can't expect everyone on the internet to have manners. But like others have said, if there's someone you really want to talk to who hasn't reached out, it's totally fine for you to send them a message first! They might've just got cold feet. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGirlChi Posted January 24, 2020 Author Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 Thank you so much!! I dont feel bad anymore:) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Looby-Lou Posted January 24, 2020 Report Share Posted January 24, 2020 IMO the one sending the friend request should at least follow up on it somehow by saying a quick hello, but this is the internet and we can't expect everyone on the internet to have manners. Everything you said. And especially this. Looby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RainDoeSprinkles Posted February 1, 2020 Report Share Posted February 1, 2020 Hi! I have a question about friend requests, too. I accepted a freind request, and I sent them a PM today to say hi. But then I later found my message in my own inbox. What happened? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talaa Posted March 30, 2022 Report Share Posted March 30, 2022 and other people are incredibly shy and will wait approximately 700 years for the other person to say hi first. I'm laughing at this because most of the time this is me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minxy Posted April 5, 2022 Report Share Posted April 5, 2022 Um, when a Daddy friend requests am I supposed to message first? I keep getting request, I check their profile, if I like them I friend but then they dont say Hi. Am I doing something wrong? I am glad you asked this. Everyone had Great responses. You aren't doing anything wrong. I felt that way too. Like why did you FR me (for me to accept) and you don't send a message. I do tend to sometimes after making friends message for a while but because I have BPD I tend to push away and not talk and I don't realize it. But anytime I do send I FR I send a message too. I have been trying to step out of my comfort zone by chatting with many others in the community but it's sometimes very hard for me. The only time I message first is when I FR the person. Love your name by the way, it used to be my nickname back in school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lunabearr Posted April 5, 2022 Report Share Posted April 5, 2022 So I have admittedly am awful.. awful at one on one conversation. I’ve sent friend requests and accepted some too, but starting and holding conversations are really difficult for me. It’s not that I don’t want to make a connection, but more so I’m a) very shy and get overwhelmed mentally very easily. I also respond to those I get good vibes from. As a single little who isn’t looking quite yet, I don’t answer ones that seem to ignore this aspect since it’s stated on my profile~ I will chime in and say though.. you’re definitely not doing anything wrong ♡ I wouldn’t necessarily agree that it’s bad manners to FR and then not PM right away, because we’re all human and we have our own things going on. I think it just depends on the context too.. such as if they responded to your personal and vice versa, etc. There are a lot of factors to think of ♡ You’re doing okay ^u^ no worries~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitten&Spice Posted April 5, 2022 Report Share Posted April 5, 2022 (edited) Edited April 5, 2022 by Kitten&Spice 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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