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I'm really into the whole DDLG kink and lifestyle, as is my Daddy. But sometimes I feel like I'm not being kinky enough for him. I want to do more with him, cause all we do at the moment is he spanks me and i call him Daddy, but I'm not really sure where to start and what to add. Any tips for someone new to being a little girl :)
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Well there's a lot to the dynamic that can be included, but at the same time there's no one good way to start.

 

I'm going to use Remi's blogspot post to help you out.

 

 

While most people are familiar with Master/slave or Master/pet, there is a gentler dynamic and that is DD/lg. DD/lg stands for Daddy Dom and little girl, but it also known as Daddy Dom and babygirl. Do not be fooled by the name though, it is not gender specific, there are Mommies and little boys as well.

It still involves a Dominant (male or female) and a submissive (male or female). The elements around the D/s lifestyle are pretty similar to that of your typical one which includes guidance, protection, training, and devotion. What makes it different from other well known branches (Master/slave and Master/pet) is that the submissive holds an inner-child side and ageplay is often incorporated in it, so not every Dom is interested in it because of the this. The power exchange between the Daddy/Mommy and little is often lower versus a TPE (total power exchange). There are also different expectations for a little than a slave, for example. Protocols and the expectations may be different or much more relaxed. The dynamic instead focuses on care and guidance for the little, where rules enforced ensure that. While the Daddy stills holds characteristics of a typical Dom, he now also plays a more intimate and nurturing parental role. He does not take the place of a true father figure that is in His sub’s life. Engaging in incest roleplay is not uncommon though.

 

Now what this means for you is that the dynamic is more nurturing between the two, much like that of the relationship between a real parent and their child. This can range anywhere from simply setting rules about things like bed time to fully treating the little as their child and doing most of their daily tasks (cleaning them, dressing them, setting all their rules, feeding them, etc).

 

You are both kinky and little according to your post. So you would most likely want to start incorporating these things into your lifestyle. Check out little space for ideas that other littles have come up with, you could probably start finding things there. There's a lot of things out there, and no one thing is the correct way to go about it!

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If it's kink specifically you're worried about, try searching for 'mojoupgrade'. It lists common kinks, and you can select which you're interested in before comparing with your partner :)
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