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    #1 Ian_Vincible



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    Posted 25 March 2020 - 03:10 PM

    Hi! I was just recently introduced to DDLG by someone I am VERY interested in romantically. I really like her a lot and wish to accommodate her in regard to being her CG. We have been discussing how she is while in her little space and what my role would entail. Any insight on how to incorporate this new element into my life and blend her preferences with my own would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your time.

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    Posted 25 March 2020 - 05:36 PM

    Welcome to the family and congrats on you and your SO finding something that you can get into together.

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    Posted 25 March 2020 - 06:44 PM

    Hi welcome!!! :)


    The best thing to do at this time is communicate openly with your partner. Move into this lifestyle together and forgive each other for early mistakes, but also don't rush too fast. Your partner sounds like she knows what she wants already, which is good.


    Also realize there is no one-size-fits-all ddlg relationship. It's hard for us here to give you specific advice because there's just so much variation. Don't try to force something that neither of you is really into just because some other littles and caregivers do it.


    I do advise reading and learning as much as you can. We have a Resources section of this forum with lots of information about the dynamic, safety precautions, bdsm in general, etc. DDLG is generally considered part of the BDSM umbrella, but it can vary from hardcore to very soft.


    I wish the two of you the best in your journey!

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    Big age: 29

    Little age: 5-7


    Children don't worry what they look like to others. They are 100% themselves. When we get older, we learn to fit in society by submerging those parts of ourselves that our culture looks down on. We don't want to be rejected by our parents. We don't want to be rejected by our peers. Growing up may include re-embracing ourselves even if we must stand alone.


    Thank you for being here as I re-embrace the Self I'm meant to be.


    (Note: I'm not looking for a caregiver right now. Please don't ask.)

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