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    #1 KawaiiPumpkin

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    Posted 27 March 2020 - 09:35 PM

    Are there any super shy/awkward littles out there or is it just me...i feel like I tend to frustrate my daddy because i never want to leave the house and with all this stuff going on i feel even more inclined to stay in my bubble
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    #2 thesoftestprincess

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    Posted 28 March 2020 - 03:43 AM

    Me me me! I'm very shy and I have social anxiety so I tend to want to stay at home a lot. 

     

    My Daddy is very understanding, but also encourages and helps me to get outside of my bubble when I feel capable. I think it's easy to get frustrated if your partner doesn't want to go out or isn't social like you are, but I also think it's not helpful to get frustrated. Maybe ask him for help and support to learn to be more social/get out more? (If that's what you want, of course.)

     

    That being said, right now, it's a GOOD thing you want to stay home! Take advantage of it and enjoy your time at home. 


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    Posted 28 March 2020 - 04:29 AM

    *waves hands* yush! I'm horrible when it comes to social interactions (especially now with covid 19 here).



    #4 KawaiiPumpkin

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    Posted 28 March 2020 - 05:39 AM

    Yea your right im gonna talk to them
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    #5 arianah

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    Posted 28 March 2020 - 08:34 AM

    Im super super shy so even talking online is really hard for meeee 

    So yea i totally understand what you mean when it comes to going out


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    #6 KawaiiPumpkin

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    Posted 28 March 2020 - 08:50 AM

    Im super super shy so even talking online is really hard for meeee 

    So yea i totally understand what you mean when it comes to going out

    I just panic and freak out and then my anxiety kicks then its all over I don't want to go anywhere...even the word outside makes me shake idk i hate my irrational fears


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    #7 BabyDaisy81

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    Posted 28 March 2020 - 09:56 AM

    I’m autistic so super awkward haha but so is he so we just muddle through.. I’m appalling with crowds and noise, we went to a bistro and it wasn’t great.. We talked about the decor, Little things, laughed a lot, he cut up my food, I made a mess, my food tasted like snot which was funny.. I banged my foot on the floor a lot.. He wasn’t angry or upset, he was proud of me for not having a meltdown :) We got dessert and took it back to my room..
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    #8 KawaiiPumpkin

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    Posted 28 March 2020 - 12:40 PM

    Thts great im glad you got tht you didnt have a meltdown and got tht delicious dessert 🖤 Lol
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    Posted 28 March 2020 - 03:02 PM

    Like BabyDaisy I'm also autistic (asperger's, but it's classified the same nowadays). I've gotten used to being awkward and doing weird things in public as long as I don't go so far as to make a scene. I'm shy when meeting new people because I don't know how they'll react to my oddities. My friends and family are used to it though. I don't often go places by myself, but certain festivals that none of my friends want to do I'll insist on going alone anyway and just wander around quietly and sit in a corner or talk to a shopkeeper in the shopping area. I'll talk to myself and probably act like a total weirdo especially if I decide to eat a dandelion or a garlic mustard weed (this happened once at a faerie festival).

     

    I expect people to mind their own business and not comment negatively on me, especially when I'm in earshot. Occasionally someone is rude and does, but then I'm mad at them and think they deserve to be bothered. I'm embarrassed too, but I won't show it. I wish I was brave enough to tell them to their face to mind their own business.


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    Children don't worry what they look like to others. They are 100% themselves. When we get older, we learn to fit in society by submerging those parts of ourselves that our culture looks down on. We don't want to be rejected by our parents. We don't want to be rejected by our peers. Growing up may include re-embracing ourselves even if we must stand alone.

     

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    #10 KawaiiPumpkin

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    Posted 28 March 2020 - 03:15 PM

    Like BabyDaisy I'm also autistic (asperger's, but it's classified the same nowadays). I've gotten used to being awkward and doing weird things in public as long as I don't go so far as to make a scene. I'm shy when meeting new people because I don't know how they'll react to my oddities. My friends and family are used to it though. I don't often go places by myself, but certain festivals that none of my friends want to do I'll insist on going alone anyway and just wander around quietly and sit in a corner or talk to a shopkeeper in the shopping area. I'll talk to myself and probably act like a total weirdo especially if I decide to eat a dandelion or a garlic mustard weed (this happened once at a faerie festival).

     

    I expect people to mind their own business and not comment negatively on me, especially when I'm in earshot. Occasionally someone is rude and does, but then I'm mad at them and think they deserve to be bothered. I'm embarrassed too, but I won't show it. I wish I was brave enough to tell them to their face to mind their own business.

     

    Well any oddities to you is are beauties in my book. Besides I doubt no one in this world can say they've never done an "awkward" thing in there life. and if they did there lying so you do you teacup and if you ever wanna escape from reality ...this form is full of cool ppl and I have a small discord so far of amazingly sweet littles you can always check it out, its on my page 


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    #11 BabyDaisy81

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    Posted 29 March 2020 - 07:16 AM

    Thts great im glad you got tht you didnt have a meltdown and got tht delicious dessert 🖤 Lol


    It was yummy <3 I knocked over my coffee and my super indulgent daddy made me a new one then gave me some extra dessert when I pulled my pouty face.. He spoils me :)
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    #12 KawaiiPumpkin

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    Posted 29 March 2020 - 07:34 AM

    It was yummy <3 I knocked over my coffee and my super indulgent daddy made me a new one then gave me some extra dessert when I pulled my pouty face.. He spoils me :)

    Aww that was so sweet of him


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