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I am in a long distance DD/LG relationship, for the most part I am happy, I go to stay with him on the occasional weekend where I will live the little lifestyle for a few days, the part I am not coping with is the time apart, we talk every day and I do little things to impress daddy, like today I did some colouring in and showed Daddy, I try to do things like that to feel close to daddy.

 

I have become extremely anxious during our apart time, and I am finding it so hard, I am terrified of losing him. Daddy knows about my anxiety and he is running out of ideas to help me feel better, are there any long distance DD/LG littles here? How do you cope without your daddy/mummy?

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Been in a LDR (long distance relationship ) for 3 years sometimes its hard sometimes not at all

I'm in NY him in Texas how I cope is I do crafts, color in my speical coloring book for when I'm lonely, keep busy (in this case 'm sick right now  so getting better is my keeping busy) and of course webcam, webcam, webcam is invaulable to a LDR.

 

Another thing we do is TV dates over facebook or webcam we'll both turn on the same show (bobs burgers for example) and watch and comment together.

Making crafts like a hat or scarf or plush toy for my daddy also keeps me busy and thinking of him but not anxious or lonley.

The biggest thing about LDR is trust. and also I use my little side to distact me from my anxieties

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Aw! I am not in a DDLG relationship right now. But, constant communication helps (especially web cam) and maybe having some items of his to hold onto while you are apart like a shirt or necklace, etc... When you can't talk to him, filling the space with positive activities (things you like to do) can help.

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Maybe long distance just isn't for you. Some can cope fine with it, others simly can't. You need to figure out if you are able to continue the relationship, if it is affecting you so badly.

I am eighty miles away from my daddy at the moment, which I know is much closer than a lot, but only because

I would not be ok being further. Thats my limit. Being apart from each other is really difficult. More so for me because I have more time on my hands to miss him lol, whereas he has a full on career with twelve hour shifts. He is busy, I am not so much, even with three kids and two jobs.

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My daddy lives in a different state, but still relatively close, especially compared to other ddlg pairs! So I'm very grateful for that. But he works 3rd shift, and I work 1st shift. So we might as well be in different time zones. Its like he's been in bed for like a couple hours and I'm getting up for work, then I'm going to bed only a couple hours after he goes to work. it kinda sucks, but we make it work.

 

Good luck to you and your daddy! :D

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Thank you for the replies, i am starting to learn to not be so anixous when I am apart from my Daddy, I have my colouring books and I am going to make a baby dinosaur stuffie for my Daddy, I am spending the weekend with him next week and I cannot wait!
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