I'm new to this whole thing. I'll give a little context to perhaps assist in the advice. So I've known this girl for 8 years and recently started dating. She opened up to me that she wants me to be her CG and me to be her little. She falls in and out of it as a way of protecting herself after her sexual abuse from other partners. She is 18 and I am 19 and we are long distance.
I don't think any of this is weird and I'm happy that she opened up to me and I'd happily let her called me daddy and for her to be my little (she stated none of this is sexual btw). However, I am honestly clueless of where to start. Should I just be direct and ask her what she wants from me or should I use my own initiative and perhaps suggest some rules.
I'm happy with anything you wanna say/ask. Just wanna do my best to make sure she feels happy and safe.