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Online, in person, did they know about DDLG before you got together? I'm interested in how this has worked out for people ♥️ Edited by Sweetieheart
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I met him on a dating site. He was looking for platonic friends so we started off that way, it just unexpectedly turned into more. The chemistry was there from the start though and we both felt a strong attraction to each other, both very compatible and similar/same values. He had all the qualities I was looking for in a partner and then some.

 

Yeah, he knew about DD/lg as he's highly kinky. He's technically a switch but leans heavily Dom, and I'm technically a switch but lean heavily sub. So we're very compatible there and with all our other desires. I'm the first person he's done this dynamic with but he's a natural and loves being a Daddy/dominant. We both have only been with one other partner in the past (previously married). I consider him to be one of my soulmates. It's that type of connection.

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On Ashley Madison.. I was an escort racking up some clients when I was going away for a study trip (and extra cash never hurts) and he was (and still is) married.. We got chatting because he wanted to get to know a bit about me which is odd.. I think he was looking for someone who was multiple flavours and I haven’t left much off my f!ck it list that’s legal.. We became online friends which was lovely and he confessed to me that he had developed a fantasy about kissing me when he saw me.. Not something I usually allow as a hooker but to him I had become a human being so I said yes.. He was a client for a short time then we became friends, then lovers.. He’s working through his separation now and I feel sad for him and his family but he chose to..

 

He knew of my toddler self quite early on as I had referred to my toddler self as the identity I built for myself to protect my mind from years of abuse, trauma, rape, assault and mental illness.. I feel safe as my three year old self and he parents and nurtures me.. Initially he found being a daddy disturbing since I had been abused.. Ironically it was my dad who tried to protect me from it so when I told him that he felt so relieved!! My dad died a lot of years ago and I miss him..

 

He gives me toddler gifts like he teddy bear (Henry) I use as my avatar pic, my beautiful gauache paints, stuff like that and when he goes home he puts me to bed.. We’re equal partners as adults and I have adult rights and responsibilities, I also have my son (who has special needs), we’re also Daddy and Daisy.. I am incontinent at night because of my back injury and brain damage so he knows about my nappies, when we FINALLY have time together again he’s going to be getting me in them.. It’s been six months since we’ve seen each other but now I can travel to South Australia (my son is going to hospital so it’s not a fun trip) so we have our time together to mend things and love each other..

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Oh wow, mine is a tad boring but through common friends. XD We were third wheeling, together and well,they broke up once we got together. Also, he was casually dating a friend of mine. Roommate actually. So not girl code but they were both just messing around and I was with a pretty toxic guy. I knew since the beginning he was into BDSM, my Daddy, I mean but it still took me about 2 -3 weeks to finally admit that I'm a little. At first he didn't understand properly what being a Daddy means though he wanted to try it and now he's the best Daddy in the world! <3
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I met my babs on reddit of all places. I posted a response to her question/problem and she found it helpful so she asked if we could pm to discuss further. Getting to know each other happened so gradually from there, but I quickly learned she was in the US (I'm UK). 3 months later we were talking on the phone every day. Another 3 months and we were video calling. Another 3 and we met in person for the first time. Then again 3 months later (I'm seeing a pattern here lol). Then coronavirus hit and we've been apart since February, but hoping for things to open up very soon.

 

As for the DDlg thing, we developed a rather unique dynamic over a long period of time (I'd say it's more LDds). I'm a daddy by all respects. I nurture and support her in a very paternal way. She has a little side. But she is also bossy, loves getting her way and has a sadistic side, all of which I love. Eventually, she was making rules for me and, unable to resist, she became my Princess. She helped me realise that I love being a daddy as much as I crave the service sub side of things and that it is OK to be both. And because of her past she needed a sense of control in a relationship, while still being little and nurtured. I do sometimes put my foot down, for her own sake, and enjoy the push and pull of it all. It just works and it happened so naturally over time. I feel what we have is so rare and I can't wait to be with her and serve her 24/7 as her daddy!

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  • 2 weeks later...

My boyfriend and I met on tinder hahaha.

 

Tinder and i had a very unhealthy relationship for numerous years. I was actually about to give up on it until he messaged me. We hit it off. We met in person. 3 years later, we love together, have cats and I love him dearly.

 

He's the best thing in my life.

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We met at university through a mutual friend. My partner is Scottish and so is another friend of ours(let's call her falkirk). When she came into the area I was in, I was looking at my phone and she started talking to our mutual friend and I confused her for falkirk.

I was with someone else at the time but we hit it off quite early on. I'm not proud of how I handled liking someone who wasn't my partner at the time but after a few months we were dating.

Pretty early on I admitted that even though I'm quite a strong minded and dominant person in everyday life I like someone to take the reigns and push me about sexually. She then introduced me into the little/big dynamic and we fell into it pretty soon after that. She made me feel safe so I was willing to try whatever kink she wanted

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We were online acquaintances in a forum that focus on international dating, language barriers, cultural differences, etc. We would answer each other often and we had our picture as an avatar so we had an idea of how we looked but we never went out of our way to talk to each other. We would even used some of the same online dating sites and we never came across each other (he was looking for younger, I for older and he is one year younger than me) 3 years passed, we even got to see a glimpse of who we were dating and read about our relationships in the forums an we still really couldn't even call ourselves friends.

 

Then he PM me to get my opinion on something... and it all went pretty fast from there, we never even had a video or voice call before meeting in person, it was all long emails. Funny enough like daddymind the magic number was 3 months lol, it was 3 months of talking online until we met in person then 3 months until we moved in together and then 3 months until we married (and then one month for surprise pregnancy!). Since it all went so fast I could never find the time to sit down and talk about DDlg but we were already doing it, he is a natural.

 

The first time I brought it up he dismissed because he had the wrong idea of it and I let it go since I don't really care for labels as long as my needs were being met and they were. Later on he got curious and started reading about it and asked me my views on it and I took the chance to make sure to clarify some stuff since I am old school BDSM and then he was all for it, after a while he asked me to call him Daddy. I think it helped I have no history of abuse or anything and I am a middle, so I am just a very girly girl who is super affectionate and a bit playful sometimes, I am submissive to him but nobody else so not the kind that expects to be rescued by her knight in shiny armor... except if there is a bug, then yes, please rescue me.

 

We both agree things would not have worked if we had met sooner, we are obviously right for each other but timing is important too. Those relationships we had helped us grow and learn what we need from a partner, which is not always what you have on your "want" list. Also I asked him if he remember what was on his profile and found a copy for me... I wouldn't have contacted him lol.

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  • 11 months later...

I met my partner two years ago when she worked as an escort.  A beautiful relationship is undoubtedly a good thing, but some girls are timid in bed, and sex with them is, roughly speaking, "nothing. For a real man, sex is a significant factor in his life. To get the maximum satisfaction of his sexual desires needs to apply https://www.escorts2.com/ts-escorts. You do not need to think about the pleasure of your partner, because you have paid the money, so you have to please, but not you, which is another advantage of the night butterflies. An individual is a good continuation of a good party, holiday, and in general of a hard day's work or a day off.

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