DDlg books!?! ;( alsooo a little advice on my relationship too please

[Lil-Pooh-Bear123]

Hiii everyone, 

 

This is a two-parter so pretty please check the bottom part as well. So, I'm new to the scene (I've always wanted to say that lol) and have taken the time to learn things about myself and this dynamic. I've been watching videos, doing research, have developed an idea of what I like/don't like, anndddd (drum roll please) I've been able to embrace my littleness and not be ashamed by it Now, I love reading and live for reading romance/erotic books but I cannot find any good ddlg books anywhere! Since I have never had a Daddy, I really want to be able to swoon over fictional characters and maybe live vicariously through them just a teensy lil bit (ya know like a sane person would). However, all I can find are books where the little is taken against her will (I'm saying her because I typically read books where the little is a female), forced into a diaper/onesie, forced to call her kidnapper "Daddy", and is locked away in some mansion where the so called "Daddy" literally just abuses/manipulates her the entire time. It makes me so mad! I've tried Wattpad, Tumblr, Dreame, and various other places you can find stories on but it's typically the same. I have bought a few books on my phone but they were just meh. They are usually strictly sexual with absolutely NO love at all, a forced ddlg relationship, or the little is a minor which makes me incredibly uncomfortable. I also stay clear of the books with multiple daddies or littles just cause I'm greedy and once I have a daddy, I don't wanna share :3 I'm hoping that there are some books that actually depict this dynamic the way it should be. With patience, love, respect, and maybe some really naughty scenes cause those are always fun too. If you know of any good ddlg books/authors/websites, please help me! Thank you <3

 

P.s - So I don't have a daddy per se, but I do have a boyfriend who has no idea about me being a little. I've been waiting this thing out with the excuse that I needed to know how to explain it and be fully knowledgeable on the matter myself before talking to him about it but now because I'm the queen of avoiding my emotions and confrontation, I've basically dug myself a hole and I'm terrified of talking to him. Any extra advice on this too? I know this is a much heavier topic than finding a good book but I'm still trying to feel the situation out myself and figure out how I'm going to word things so any advice/past experiences you want to share will help. Thanks a bunch

Edited July 17, 2020 by Lil-Pooh-Bear123

[Guest clumsy_little]

A Little Love by ChisaiMix on Wattpad is a good book related to DDLG. The author also has an account here (ChisaiMix). 

[Vampiress]

You can try dipping your toes into the conversation with him like asking what he feels about certain aspects, or showing it to him... like see how he feels about a power exchange to start? You can show him articles or pictures and gauge his reactions. It would be better to just show him something that explains what DD/lg is. Make sure it's a proper explanation so he doesn't start assuming the wrong things. Make sure to introduce it slowly because it tends to backfire when people come on too strong and overwhelm a partner who isn't at all familiar. Hard to advise beyond that until you figure out how he feels about it. Doesn't have to be a lost cause though if he initially feels weirded out, sometimes people come around to the idea and change their mind. 

As for the stories, I have no idea honestly. I've heard bad things about DD/lg stories on Wattpad and haven't really tried looking.

[Nymph]

There are many ways to go about it, it really depends on you and him.

 

If you have already done a bunch or research and he enjoys reading, then choose what is closer to what you want/like and share it with him, then ask what he thinks about that. If he says he doesn't like the idea or that is silly don't be sad, instead ask why and maybe share why you like the idea of it so he can see your point of view too. He just might be seeing from a complete different angle. Don't push him too hard, if he has never thought about it he might need time to process it, maybe he won't be interested and that should be respected too.

 

A movie might be a good option if he is not into reading or want to be more casual about it. Have you watched The Secretary? is not 100% DDlg but I like it because it focus on their relationship, she is a bit of a middle and brat but she doesn't really knows herself at first. It is a comedy but not full blown silly kind, it doesn't ridicule the lifestyle it just shows the little quirks and doesn't seem too serious but for those of us who are into it, it just clicks and while there is a bit of friskiness it's mostly romantic.

 

Do keep in mind I have a BDSM background so what looks cute and tame and funny to me might look borderline abuse to you XD so maybe consider watching it first on your own if you are shy to show something you would not agree to. Since I am not shy I would jump at the opportunity to say what I like and what I don't about it!

[Lil-Pooh-Bear123]

Thank you!! <3

A Little Love by ChisaiMix on Wattpad is a good book related to DDLG. The author also has an account here (ChisaiMix). 

[Lil-Pooh-Bear123]

Thank you! I've tried hinting at certain things and watching for his reaction - which was always positive but I'll continue to keep doing this until I am ready. You mentioned introducing it slowly so I'm thinking that maybe I'll explain little pieces at a time and go from there. I honestly didn't even think about doing it this way smh, I always imagined it as a sit down, face-to-face styled conversation which of course added to my intimidation. Thank you so much! <3

You can try dipping your toes into the conversation with him like asking what he feels about certain aspects, or showing it to him... like see how he feels about a power exchange to start? You can show him articles or pictures and gauge his reactions. It would be better to just show him something that explains what DD/lg is. Make sure it's a proper explanation so he doesn't start assuming the wrong things. Make sure to introduce it slowly because it tends to backfire when people come on too strong and overwhelm a partner who isn't at all familiar. Hard to advise beyond that until you figure out how he feels about it. Doesn't have to be a lost cause though if he initially feels weirded out, sometimes people come around to the idea and change their mind. 

As for the stories, I have no idea honestly. I've heard bad things about DD/lg stories on Wattpad and haven't really tried looking.

[Lil-Pooh-Bear123]

Thank you!! I have never heard of that movie before so I'll look it up. I'll watch it first and see if it is something I would like to show him. I didn't even think about showing him a movie as a way to introduce this to him and he looveessss movies so this idea is perfect! Thank you so super much <3

There are many ways to go about it, it really depends on you and him.

 

If you have already done a bunch or research and he enjoys reading, then choose what is closer to what you want/like and share it with him, then ask what he thinks about that. If he says he doesn't like the idea or that is silly don't be sad, instead ask why and maybe share why you like the idea of it so he can see your point of view too. He just might be seeing from a complete different angle. Don't push him too hard, if he has never thought about it he might need time to process it, maybe he won't be interested and that should be respected too.

 

A movie might be a good option if he is not into reading or want to be more casual about it. Have you watched The Secretary? is not 100% DDlg but I like it because it focus on their relationship, she is a bit of a middle and brat but she doesn't really knows herself at first. It is a comedy but not full blown silly kind, it doesn't ridicule the lifestyle it just shows the little quirks and doesn't seem too serious but for those of us who are into it, it just clicks and while there is a bit of friskiness it's mostly romantic.

 

Do keep in mind I have a BDSM background so what looks cute and tame and funny to me might look borderline abuse to you XD so maybe consider watching it first on your own if you are shy to show something you would not agree to. Since I am not shy I would jump at the opportunity to say what I like and what I don't about it!

[Kkrocker]

Hiii everyone,

 

This is a two-parter so pretty please check the bottom part as well. So, I'm new to the scene (I've always wanted to say that lol) and have taken the time to learn things about myself and this dynamic. I've been watching videos, doing research, have developed an idea of what I like/don't like, anndddd (drum roll please) I've been able to embrace my littleness and not be ashamed by it Now, I love reading and live for reading romance/erotic books but I cannot find any good ddlg books anywhere! Since I have never had a Daddy, I really want to be able to swoon over fictional characters and maybe live vicariously through them just a teensy lil bit (ya know like a sane person would). However, all I can find are books where the little is taken against her will (I'm saying her because I typically read books where the little is a female), forced into a diaper/onesie, forced to call her kidnapper "Daddy", and is locked away in some mansion where the so called "Daddy" literally just abuses/manipulates her the entire time. It makes me so mad! I've tried Wattpad, Tumblr, Dreame, and various other places you can find stories on but it's typically the same. I have bought a few books on my phone but they were just meh. They are usually strictly sexual with absolutely NO love at all, a forced ddlg relationship, or the little is a minor which makes me incredibly uncomfortable. I also stay clear of the books with multiple daddies or littles just cause I'm greedy and once I have a daddy, I don't wanna share :3 I'm hoping that there are some books that actually depict this dynamic the way it should be. With patience, love, respect, and maybe some really naughty scenes cause those are always fun too. If you know of any good ddlg books/authors/websites, please help me! Thank you <3

 

P.s - So I don't have a daddy per se, but I do have a boyfriend who has no idea about me being a little. I've been waiting this thing out with the excuse that I needed to know how to explain it and be fully knowledgeable on the matter myself before talking to him about it but now because I'm the queen of avoiding my emotions and confrontation, I've basically dug myself a hole and I'm terrified of talking to him. Any extra advice on this too? I know this is a much heavier topic than finding a good book but I'm still trying to feel the situation out myself and figure out how I'm going to word things so any advice/past experiences you want to share will help. Thanks a bunch

 

 

Same! There is quotev , I forgot the story name but it's Edward Cullen and not really sexual,I haven't seen the movie (lie,but against my will and I forgot everything)

[littleprincessbbw]

Okay so these are Kindle recommendations but....

 

Breanna Hayse (I LOVE HER AGEPLAY STUFF) 

Laylah Roberts  (Brilliant Ageplay stuff)

BJ Wane

Emily Tilton

 

The top two are my most favourite authors!!!!!!!!!!

[Lil-Pooh-Bear123]

Thank you!

[Littlelovescuddles]

Hi hi!!

I recommend the little cakes series by Pepper north and Paige Michaels! Love the series! Also lone star littles!!

amy Cummings is a good author too!!

I love to read and I like finding new books to read too! Hopes this helps <33

[Sammykins]

So here for the book recs! Love finding new books and authors that depict DDlg! Some of my favorite authors are Kate Oliver, Pepper North, Paige Michaels, Becca Jameson, Rory Reynolds, L.G. Knight, and Cooper McKenzie! All of there books actually touch on consent and agreeing to the dynamic. 

Not sure if you are still having the concern regarding your questions on discussing being little with your boyfriend, completely understand being scared and not wanting that confrontation! My only advise would be that don't put it off. It very much sounds like you found a piece of yourself and you should be able to live to your fullest. Maybe use books as the opportunity to bridge the subject!

[sammar]

On 17‏/7‏/2020 at 09:52, Lil-Pooh-Bear123 said:

مرحبا بالجميع، 

 

هذا مكون من جزأين، لذا يرجى التحقق من الجزء السفلي أيضًا. لذا، فأنا جديد على المشهد (لطالما أردت أن أقول ذلك، ها ها ها) وقد أخذت الوقت الكافي لتعلم أشياء عن نفسي وعن هذه الديناميكية. كنت أشاهد مقاطع الفيديو وأجري الأبحاث، وقد طورت فكرة عما أحبه/لا أحبه، و(يرجى قرع الطبول) تمكنت من احتضان صغري وعدم الشعور بالخجل منه. الآن، أحب القراءة وأعيش من أجل قراءة كتب الرومانسية/الإيروتيكية ولكن لا يمكنني العثور على أي كتب جيدة عن ddlg في أي مكان! نظرًا لأنني لم يكن لدي أب أبدًا، فأنا أريد حقًا أن أتمكن من الإعجاب بالشخصيات الخيالية وربما أعيش من خلالها بشكل غير مباشر قليلاً (كما تعلمون، كما يفعل الشخص العاقل). ومع ذلك، كل ما يمكنني العثور عليه هو الكتب التي يتم فيها أخذ الصغيرة ضد إرادتها (أقولها لأنني عادةً ما أقرأ الكتب التي تكون فيها الصغيرة أنثى)، وتُجبر على ارتداء حفاضات/بدلة، وتُجبر على مناداة خاطفها "أبي"، وتُحبس في قصر ما حيث يسيء إليها "الأب" المزعوم معاملتها/يتلاعب بها حرفيًا طوال الوقت. هذا يجعلني غاضبًا جدًا! لقد جربت Wattpad وTumblr وDreame والعديد من الأماكن الأخرى التي يمكنك العثور على قصص عليها ولكنها عادةً ما تكون هي نفسها. لقد اشتريت بعض الكتب على هاتفي لكنها كانت مجرد مملة. عادة ما تكون جنسية تمامًا بدون أي حب على الإطلاق، أو علاقة dlg قسرية، أو تكون الصغيرة قاصرًا مما يجعلني غير مرتاحة بشكل لا يصدق. كما أبتعد عن الكتب التي تحتوي على العديد من الآباء أو الأطفال الصغار فقط لأنني جشعة وبمجرد أن أحصل على أب، لا أريد المشاركة :3 آمل أن تكون هناك بعض الكتب التي تصور هذه الديناميكية بالطريقة التي ينبغي أن تكون عليها. بالصبر والحب والاحترام، وربما بعض المشاهد الشقية حقًا لأنها ممتعة دائمًا أيضًا. إذا كنت تعرف أي كتب أو مؤلفين أو مواقع ويب جيدة لـ ddlg، فيرجى مساعدتي! شكرًا لك ❤️

 

ملاحظة: ليس لدي أب على وجه التحديد، ولكن لدي صديق لا يعرف شيئًا عن كوني طفلة صغيرة. كنت أنتظر حدوث هذا الأمر بحجة أنني بحاجة إلى معرفة كيفية شرحه وأن أكون على دراية كاملة بالأمر بنفسي قبل التحدث معه بشأنه، ولكن الآن لأنني ملكة تجنب مشاعري والمواجهة، فقد حفرت لنفسي حفرة وأخشى التحدث معه. هل لديك أي نصيحة إضافية بشأن هذا أيضًا؟ أعلم أن هذا موضوع أثقل كثيرًا من العثور على كتاب جيد، لكنني ما زلت أحاول استكشاف الموقف بنفسي ومعرفة كيفية صياغة الأمور، لذا فإن أي نصيحة/خبرات سابقة ترغبين في مشاركتها ستساعدني. شكرًا جزيلاً

Hello, how did  I you know about DDLG? I watched a video of little's in their space. I was surprised by the subject positively. I wondered why,  I wanted to know, so I searched at the time, but I did not find much. For almost a whole year, the subject occupied my mind a lot, and by the time In 2018 I wanted to understand the subject badly so I read it , knowing that English is not my first language it was difficult but I did it ,here when I found the stories about DDLG Here I began to understand a little about the relationship and how the DADDY and little are. I loved the lifestyle very much. The stories were great , yes through Wattpad, but now the stories are exactly like what you said, either kidnapping and coercion, or they are more sexual. I love stories because I understand this world through them and I love it, but recently I don't find stories worth reading.