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i know I'm new to the lifestyle but I know I'm not the only little who dose this... I keep over thinking EVERYTHING. If I don't hear from daddy I think "I did something wrong" or "what if he wants to leave cus I'm to much work". Or you worry all the time that ur leavening to many messages and being annoying.

I keep overthinking everything but ik that's all it is >< who else feels that way?

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*nods* You're not at all alone, and I think this fear just comes with the territory. p.s. you have an adorable tumblr! :)

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Basically my brain runs like that all the time, its seems like its sole purpose is to over think things until it collapse onto itself. It helps to find something to ground you, to remind you of all the things that in your head are just sometimes your brain trying to trip and mess you up. I don't always have people around for that, so I actually gave myself tattoos for that reason. When I feel the anxiety kick in I just look at them and remind myself that I am not my thoughts, but what I do with those thoughts. 

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I tend to overthink in general about eeeeeverything.  I know it can be hard sometimes to stop overthinking, but usually when I catch myself I try to think about something else for a while and then I come back to whatever it was that I was overthinking to process it with a fresher mind.  Not always easy but, sometimes it works for me, so just a thought ;)

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Of course you're not the only one! Honestly, being in a long distance DD/LG relationship, I always think that I did something wrong or that I upset him. But we normally Skype every night so that we can talk about our days and make sure that everything is okay with and between us. I suggest doing something like that c: Just talk to him, it helps to get rid of that feeling. <3 best of luck.

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This is very common actually! I'm a lot more vulnerable when I'm in Little space and I know quite a few people who feel like that too! I've been talking to daddies and even though they are just friends, I tend to be in Little mode super easily. And each time they are a bit long to answer I immediatly think that I'm annoying them and I ask them if I'm annoying them but they say no so I just think that they don't want to hurt my feelings or something. But when I go out of Little space, I realize I was just over thinking.

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-nods lots- My biggest issue is worrying I'm freaking Daddy out. :( Daddy was mostly vanilla when I asked him to be my Daddy. I had to explain the dynamic and what it meant. He's a natural though and our relationship was and has always been very Daddy/little-esque looking back. Even way before he was ever my Daddy/SO, back when he was my best friend. Unfortunately like a lot of vanilla people he was VERY misinformed about this dynamic but he's learning. I often worry about showing my full little side and asking him for some things out of fear he won't understand or be put off. He continually surprises me though and says he absolutely loves being my Daddy. He says I worry entirely too much. I try not to but I can't help it. And yes, I worry a lot that I've done something wrong too so I apologize a lot. Which annoys Daddy sometimes because he says it makes him feel like HE did something wrong. He's threatened to make it a rule that I can't say I'm sorry unless I really REALLY mean it and KNOW I did something wrong. Haha.
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-nods lots- My biggest issue is worrying I'm freaking Daddy out. :( Daddy was mostly vanilla when I asked him to be my Daddy. I had to explain the dynamic and what it meant. He's a natural though and our relationship was and has always been very Daddy/little-esque looking back. Even way before he was ever my Daddy/SO, back when he was my best friend. Unfortunately like a lot of vanilla people he was VERY misinformed about this dynamic but he's learning. I often worry about showing my full little side and asking him for some things out of fear he won't understand or be put off. He continually surprises me though and says he absolutely loves being my Daddy. He says I worry entirely too much. I try not to but I can't help it. And yes, I worry a lot that I've done something wrong too so I apologize a lot. Which annoys Daddy sometimes because he says it makes him feel like HE did something wrong. He's threatened to make it a rule that I can't say I'm sorry unless I really REALLY mean it and KNOW I did something wrong. Haha.

 

I totally resonate with this my Daddy was my vanilla boyfriend and I was so scared he wouldn't like the idea or just say he did to make me happy and even now I worry sometimes but all it takes is him to have a spontaneous Daddy moment to know its all okay. I am definitely an overthinker in all aspects of life though.. something I gotta work on for sure

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