Can you share some tips for getting to know a potential Daddy or Caregiver? Like, after you've met someone and you think they *could* be a possibility but it's still too early to really dive into a dynamic. I have looked around for advice and I already know to try to take it slow, and get to know them before really getting into it. But can someone help me with ideas of how to do that?
Like, I want to know if the person I'm talking to is nice and kind, would be interested in taking care of me, and has some similar interests. But what are the specific do's and don'ts for avoiding jumping in too quickly? Should you wait a certain amount of time to meet irl or should you meet earlier on (safely of course) to see if there is chemistry? Are there things you can ask to help determine whether they would be a good Caregiver for you, maybe? Are there certain boundaries you should either tell them you have, or just keep for yourself?
Any thoughts, experiences, advice etc are welcome! Also red flags to watch for! Thank you!