Feeling drained

[Guest NeverDespairDD]

I feel so drained of life right now. I had a relationship for 6 and a half months and tried to accommodate all of my little’s needs and wants, but she after 6 and a half months decided she no longer was “feeling it anymore.” I realize people can make choices in life, but it’s just rough after you put so much effort into trying to make sure your little is extremely happy to break up over “I’m not feeling it anymore.” Three weeks earlier she said she loved me. Then she decided three weeks laters to break up with me. I love the ddlg lifestyle, I love having a little and the dynamics this lifestyle provides, but that also makes a break up even harder. I know I’ll eventually be ok, but I just needed to write my experience because I’m very upset. I know life is complex and a billion other reasons may be the reason she broke up with me, but it still is very upsetting. I just hope when I do recover and if I do meet another little that this doesn’t recur. Best of luck to everyone else. A relationship is worth it even if moments like this occur. Idk... if you read this please have some decency I’m very upset. Thank you!

[Littlemisspenguin]

You are right, life and stuff can be complex.. nothing really easy about it. Just remember things eventually always get better. I know how cheesy and lame that sounds, but it's true. Please keep your chin up and don't let yourself get too down.

 

And please know you are on a great site if you need to vent or need someone to talk to. People are very kind and understanding here. I've had people I didn't know help me out on more than one occasion. Just being a shoulder to lean on in a time of need. So if you need that, I am willing to pass it forward and be a listening ear.

Edited December 7, 2020 by Littlemisspenguin

[Guest NeverDespairDD]

Thank you for your friendly response. It will take some time, but as great as she was she dumped me and so I have to realize I have to recover and move on. It’s hard though.

[MysticSand]

*huggle* I'm sorry about your breakup. It'll take time for sure to grieve but in time you'll just think of it as a blip and an experience lived and learned. It's weird to me when peoples' feelings change and I think a lot of times we don't realize that a serious relationship isn't necessarily about that "spark" that's portrayed in movies and whatnot, but is actually work in making sure we're the best versions of ourselves with and for our partners. All in all, if it's not meant to be, then it just isn't.

 

I hope binge watching some of your go-to shows, nomming your favorite calorie-laden foods, and just giving yourself time to acknowledge and accept will help you to move on. Best wishes. 

[Guest NeverDespairDD]

Thank you MysticSand! I appreciate the people on here who are friendly and don’t assume the worse of someone and can express sympathy! While I am recovering from my ex breaking up with me, it is people like you and Littlemisspenguin that remind me that despite a lot of bad experiences, a lot of life and a lot of people are “a blip” and provide “experience live and learned.” Thank you again!

[Jet]

I'm sure things will work out for you eventually and that this will be a learning experience. Keep your head up mate, I'm sure you're a lovely DD and will find a Little that is deserving of your time.

[Joleena]

I feel you. Also going through a breakup, but new in this scene of DDLG. ... Find out what you need at the moment, - distraction, food, friends, sadness ... and let it be. Take good care of youself. 

[Thiccaltprincess]

Breakups suck hope you're doing okay <3

[Hypnoduke]