Advice for a young daddy.

[Jishie-Fishie]

Hi all!

 

My little and I are both young and going to college, meaning we have to do a LDR most of the time.

 

We’re both still living with family/roommates and we want to keep our dynamic discreet for now. Do y’all have any advice for tasks/punishments/rewards I could give my little that wouldn’t seem too out of place?

 

Also any gifts I could send her would be great because I really want to buy her something to remind her of me.

 

-Jishie Fishie

[ScarletBaby]

As a Little living with her parents I can say that gift wise, a good plushie that she can sleep with is always the right gift for discretion and for comfort/love. I can't really help with the punishments but I can say that food delivery apps are letting you send food as gifts through them now so if you wanted to buy her an ice cream from a distance or something as a reward that's definitely an option. Task wise asking her to send pictures of normal things that can be hard to bring yourself to do is something. Like cleaning your room or other chores if that's something that you two decided you liked. Ultimately I'd say a good place to find ideas could be some good DDLG books. In a lot of the ones I read the Daddy will make a naughty book when he can't immediately give a punishment. One did a chart and if there was more good ticks than bad then she'd get a reward and if it was more bad then she'd get a punishment and it could be lines, corner time or other varying time outs, or even grounding. Ultimately you two will have to find what works for you but I hope this helps. A lot of my ideas are more from book than reality currently, but I am a firm believer in books in general and allowing yourself to live in fantasy when possible. Good Luck!

[PigtailPrincess]

As a Little living with her parents I can say that gift wise, a good plushie that she can sleep with is always the right gift for discretion and for comfort/love. I can't really help with the punishments but I can say that food delivery apps are letting you send food as gifts through them now so if you wanted to buy her an ice cream from a distance or something as a reward that's definitely an option. Task wise asking her to send pictures of normal things that can be hard to bring yourself to do is something. Like cleaning your room or other chores if that's something that you two decided you liked. Ultimately I'd say a good place to find ideas could be some good DDLG books. In a lot of the ones I read the Daddy will make a naughty book when he can't immediately give a punishment. One did a chart and if there was more good ticks than bad then she'd get a reward and if it was more bad then she'd get a punishment and it could be lines, corner time or other varying time outs, or even grounding. Ultimately you two will have to find what works for you but I hope this helps. A lot of my ideas are more from book than reality currently, but I am a firm believer in books in general and allowing yourself to live in fantasy when possible. Good Luck!

Have you found any specific books you found helpful?

[ScarletBaby]

PigtailPrincess I literally search DDLG books on Amazon and have had a lot of fun. I find the Montana Daddies series by Laylah Roberts is really enjoyable and relatively realistic for an instalove. I have also enjoyed MC Daddies from the same author. Pepper North has some good ones if you like DDLG ABDL books and so has Lucky Moon, though Lucky Moon has a quirk where it seems all the Daddies refer to their Littles by the same nickname which isn't one of the normal common ones(it's been a while since I've read one of hers so I don't remember). These have been some pretty decent books in my opinion. Amy Cummings is one of my favorites for DDLG ABDL books as well, she can be a slower burn with some of these. I hope this helps.

[maddycakes]

Some good discreet punishments:

- the little is not allowed to watch tv (or, if that is too conspicuous, not allowed to watch whatever show they are in the midst of binging)

- lines (can be done anytime, anywhere and it just looks like they're working really hard on their homework! as long as someone is not hovering over them anyways) 

- the little is not allowed to play video games/phone app games

- the little must not wear any undies (as long as they're wearing pants, this is discreet)

- writing assignment

- an exercise they don't like (ie burpees D: )

- a chore that they don't like (for example- if they hate to do the dishes, they must drop what they're doing and wash all the dirty dishes in the house/dorm. if they hate to fold laundry, they must re-fold all the laundry in their dresser or just one drawer)