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[Glittery Marshmallow]

So, I haven't been to the site in a little while but hey, here I am again.

My question of the day to all littles is: What are the bratty things that you do? How do you get punished after that or how do your CGs react to it?

Question to caregivers is: What are the bratty things that your littles do and how do you curb them or well, at least react to them?

[Little kaiya]

Typically if I'm being bratty it means that I'm looking for attention from my Daddy or that I'm looking for Him to actively reinforce my position as His little/sub.

As such, punishment doesn't work but physical and mental reinforcement of our agreed upon dynamic does. This is often done through Him putting my collar and leash on me, pacifier in the mouth, being diapered if it's not a diaper day, a sensual over the knee spanking or even mandatory lap nap time.

[maddycakes]

I want to preface this by saying I do not identify as a brat, and so if you are trying to find out these answers from the perspective of someone who does, my response probably won't be very helpful

 

If I'm being bratty it's either because I am cranky (tired, hungry, whatever) or because my Daddy is not providing the appropriate structure in our relationship (which doesn't happen very often anymore but came up a lot when we first started dating). 

Now that my Daddy has had lots of practice, He is excellent at handling my bratty behavior. He always starts by correcting me, then follows up by asking if something is wrong/if I ate breakfast/how I slept last night/etc. We talk about it, and then if He feels a punishment is warranted He gives me one (or if it is something that requires privacy, we may schedule it for a later time).