staying in little space

[poseyduchess]

so, i am a little and i definitely have a little space. but i have this thing where i can snap out of it really quickly, and i don’t know if i like it. i dont know if this is the case with other littles, but if it’s not, do you all have any ideas of how to really really regress?

[Jessie<3]

I get this too sometimes. I find if a conversation happens that makes me feel not little im straight out of it or also i love with family so im almost forced out of it sometimes. I hope you find some ideas though!

[MissPattch]

 I think the thing with this is that essentially, its a state of mind, so anything going on outside of your inside is going to have an effect, and not always a positive one. It happens to me on occasion too, more so when i'm havng difficult emotions or feelings.

 

My little space is always an easy place to be, with Daddy, where i don't have to think or worry about stuff, but sometimes, its hard to totally switch off and something might happen that swings me out, and its uncomfortable for a little while until i relax and go back to being little. 

 

What i try to do, is make sure i take care of all the grown up stuff before i know i'm going to get to spend time in my little space.  That way, i can be confident that nothing is going to hamper my time or play on my thoughts and emotions. Another good idea would be to journal what happens when you get shunted out of your headspace each time, and then look back and see if you can find a common theme or pattern. Journalling is also a good way of getting any hard thoughts out before you go smol <3

 

 I hope some of this helps 

[sprinklelove]

I experience this often - it’s difficult for me me to even make time to be little - and, when I do, it can be interrupted by real life quickly - best advice is to make the appropriate time and space for it - unplug (if possible) - if you live with others, find time where you can be alone or even rent a hotel if you want but, make sure real life isn’t barging in on your physical space

 

If it’s more that there are triggers within play that snap you out of little space, talk to your partner (if it applies) to make sure you can avoid it - I’ve also had that happen

 

Good luck have fun!