Little_princess.. Posted March 7, 2021 Report Posted March 7, 2021 (edited) delete Edited April 3, 2021 by Little_princess.. 1
DerbyNerd Posted March 7, 2021 Report Posted March 7, 2021 The best advice I can give you is VERY VERY open communication. Set yourselves very specific boundaries and as the other commenter said start with short time limits. Maybe use the traffic light system (green=all good, yellow=pause and discuss, red=stop) and check in with each other at least every 20-30mins mins while participating in the dynamic. Given his mental health and your caution you will probably need the extra check ins. 2
kortis_aj2020 Posted March 8, 2021 Report Posted March 8, 2021 along with traffic light system you need to actually have to pull some good strings(memories) of your past ddlg experiences and initially go very slow , don't skip the difficult things rather put some time together and find solution for that parallelly. 1
DaddyDomination Posted March 8, 2021 Report Posted March 8, 2021 Should go without saying, but this is one of the reasons for the Safe Word. Honestly even couples outside of D/s, DDlg should establish one. 2
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